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aceflies

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I am just 21 years old.

I don't fap or watch porn.

I lift 5 days a week (progressive overload).

I eat A+ food (Micro and Macro Managed). I don't do drugs or drink alcohol.

I think I am suffering from ED. I had sex with a chick yesterday. I was hard but I wasn't "super hard", Which kept on making in flaccid in between the sex and the bitch kept on saying "Why don't you get hard?" and I replied, "Shut up and ride". The only moment I was "Superhard" was during like 30-45 seconds before ejaculation.

Help me guys, I don't want to take viagra or any medicine. How can I get Super Hard like the moment before ejaculating?

Advice me RPers, Thanks

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whytehorse2021 5y ago

I get that sometimes. I'm bi so I just switch teams for a while and when I can't get hard with guys I switch back.

johnnysmallseed 5y ago

If you Jelq a bit for 10 - 15 minutes a day I can guarantee you will be rock hard whenever the time comes. I'm not saying rip your dick off but light massage with that technique will give you stronger erections. I already have solid erections but if I jelq for a few days and get hard. My cock is more vascular and A LOT HARDER. It might even add 1/4 of an inch if you do it longer since your erections will have way more blood flow it will make it grow a bit more than usual.

bjjneck 5y ago

It happens. I wouldn't stress about it, just make sure to put yourself and your enjoyment first when your having sex. I'm not saying to be a selfish lover. Think about it like you gotta be having fun before you can share. Unless you have problems masturbating you don't have ED, just a easy to fix mentality. Also try cock rings, I find that I don't get "super hard" all the time and I just pop one on real quick.

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aceflies 5y ago

Thanks man, I’ll keep in mind

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BabyUareSoSexy 5y ago

I was experiencing the same thing. Compound exercises, cold showers, multivitamins, enough sleep, eating clean, .. Made it better. But it sounds like you are already doing those. Maybe you have low test? Did you get it checked? Sometimes I'd have ED with girls I wasn't really attracted to. I had girls from Tinder come over, wasn't even turned on by them, tried to force it, couldn't get hard. With my ex-girlfriend I had no issues whatsoever. Maybe fuck hotter girls?

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pfeilmacher 5y ago

Get larger condoms. I use Durex XXL and they feel great. Also cock rings work. Get a silicone one that the balls go through as well. You won't regret it.

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aceflies 5y ago

Apologies for the late reply.

Thanks man, I really needed in advice, I am the same size, Hence I think it will work quite magical for me.

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pfeilmacher 5y ago

About 6". But I think those XXLs will fit you if you're near 5.5.

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pfeilmacher 5y ago

Oh yeah.....you'll find Durex XXLs perfect.

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pfeilmacher 5y ago

I got mine from Amazon. I actually used bareskin magnums twice for sex and I couldn't get fully hard because they were too tight. I think magnums are just regular sized condoms.

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jormigaso 5y ago

what's your dick size?

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