Hello, first time poster, long time red pilled.
I'm 32, I've been dating a girl for 6 months. She's as close to my ideal as it can get. I'd love to continue just dating her, but she's also a student from a 3rd world country. Long story short, in order to stay together I'd have to marry her because as of now her staying in my country is conditional upon her student VISA which is soon going to expire.
She never asked for marriage, she only started taking it into consideration as an option after I told her I was willing to do it in order to stay together.
There's only one issue: I'm certain she believes I make at least 30% more money than I actually make. If it wasn't for this little detail I wouldn't be writing this.
Time is ticking and I have only few weeks to make this decision as getting all the necessary papers will take months.
Any input would be appreciated.
xosta 2y ago
I think it's not a healthy relationship when one partner doesn't value the other. People should be with someone who appreciates them, and in that case, marriage will only build a stronger bond. Hopefully, I'll find someone to form a bond too. I even started looking for women on milfs dating, and I hope I won't have problems in my personal life.
PaidThaCost 2y ago
Firstly, why did you lie/hide the truth - you need to explore that with yourself. Secondly, you have only known her for 6 months, how could you already know she is close to your ideal. People can act for 2 years or more before marriage. Let her find a job or start another course and get another student visa. I think you need a few more years before you can be sure marriage to her may work.
Basically, find another way for her to stay in your country.
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pfeilmacher 2y ago
Have you read any TRP literature? Do that first and your question will be answered.
AcidFrog 2y ago
I read plenty of books and material, trust me, and I have absolutely no answer atm.
pfeilmacher 2y ago
The answer is No.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
If she is from a third world country, do you really think she is gonna care that much if you are a little less affluent than she thought you were? I think you are probably fine man.
jormigaso 2y ago
NEVER, all women are fucking bitches, what the fuck you want to get married? she will cheat with Chad anyways
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Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
My input would be NO. Fuck her until she has to leave. Don't give her any money.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
You could do a fiancee visa. You need to screen a woman for 2 years before deciding to marry.
AcidFrog 2y ago
that'd be great I'll check if available in my region