We met on tinder and got coffee, a few days later she came over to fuck / spend the night at my place. I'm pretty sure she enjoyed it since she was very affectionate the morning after.
I've texted her to invite her over twice now. She has always responded quickly in less than 5 minutes. The first time she was out of town, and the second time (today) she responded something to the effect of "Possibly. I'm going out w the girls idk when I'll be back and I have to get up at dawn tomorrow".
While I do have another girl I'm fucking it would be nice to keep this one as a plate for abundance. Do I:
- Hit her up later tonight (seems needy to me but might work)
- Don't contact her at all tonight and text another day
- Soft next until she reaches out.
Guyandtheroadtovictory 2y ago
If the mountain will not come to Muhammad...
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
4) find another girl to fuck until she contacts you again
hannulv 2y ago
To be fair, 4 is pretty much the same as 3.
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Depends on how much you want to fuck her. Maybe send her a text the night she's out with her friends "come over....I have a special present for you".
If she doesn't bite, soft next.
BabyUareSoSexy 2y ago
If a girl genuinely likes you, she'll do anything to see you. I had girls cancel plans on their friends/family, just to see me. Then I had other girls who flaked on me last minute, without giving a fuck. It's a numbers game. If one girl wastes your time, you next her and find other girls who value your time.
NeoSpartan 2y ago
Do what you feel like doing, if you want to see her tonight send a text tonight, if you dont care that much wait till tomorrow. I think over analyzing these things is a bad strat.
You could always just text her asking when she is going to be free next and set something up for later. I'd also say something about how you are going to be busy on a certain day(s), even if you aren't if only so it doesn't seem like you are boring and dont have much going on. No offense btw, I just don't know what your life is like.
CrimsonConquistador 2y ago
You're right I'm overthinking this. I'm gonna go for it tonight. If it doesn't work out it I have other options and she might still come over in the future.