We all know that women rarely say what they actually want from a man. When women say that when they're talking about their problems, they don't want us to fix anything, they just want us to shut up and listen, is this the best thing we can do?
Usually initially I'll try to find a solution. Often this works! If not, I'll typically get bored/frustrated after a while and just leave.
I'm talking about girls I'm already fucking.
BootySpillingOut 2y ago
They probably want you to tell them to stop fucking whining.
Women are very much like children. They will do things to elicit a negative response, purposely cross the line, so you react and provide boundaries (subset of shit testing). Women, like children, need boundaries of acceptable behavior to be set for them by an authority, this helps them feel secure. If the authority to which they appeal is incompetent, they will begrudgingly set these boundaries for themselves.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
Don't find solutions for them. Sometimes they do want one, but generally not.
women need drama/emotion. they need that at the end of a work day for example, decompress. They want to talk about how the boss didn't give her a good review. Don't ask why,etc. Just say, what a bitch, you are awesome should have got a great review. They want support.
I'm ancient, sometimes I can't tell myself and ask her. Yes, I'll ask her, do you want a solution here or support? I'm an old engineer, she knows I'm binary to my soul.
so, you need to put limits on this stuff also. It's not good for them to bitch the whole night, they need help sometimes snapping out of it. Redirect them, let's go to gym, let's walk dog. If it's a rough one, slap her ass, put her over your shoulder take her to the bedroom and take care of it. They usually enjoy that a lot.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
This is TRP 101. It just proves that no one here reads the fucking sidebar at all, but feel entitled to be spoonfed.
For other retards, including OP, read this https://archive.is/rZ7DN
It's not about the nail
MonkMode 2y ago
My ex came to me one day clearly depressed. I tied her hands to my gymnastic rings naked. Said, I love you. Then whipped her with a bull whip until she said stop. But I am in charge so I did one more whip. When I released her, she fell into my arms horny as hell.
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
I mostly see posts on here about guys afraid to lose a girl or how to get a specific girl. I made an account thinking this was a red pill forum.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
If you have to ask this question, you're her beta orbiter. If you're in an LTR then you have to provide a little beta to satisfy her AF/BB dual mating strategy but you have to teach her that she needs to complain to other women and not you unless it's a problem you can solve.