after my last post I replied with this:

“if we're gonna see each other and be in a relationship we'd have to change some things”

She says:

“Like what, i’m j tryna figure out how u feel or what u want bc hanging out and shit is good but then everything outside of it i always feel like it’s one sided like i put in all the effort. i mean it took TWO days for u to answer if i’m the only one who cares then lowkey what’s the point”

I’m planning on replying with this:

“I mean I’ve always been more of a in-person type so if that’s a dealbreaker for u then that’s fine”

To me it seems like she’s playing victim to gauge me and justify her decision to branch swing