Hi.
I'm curious about the idea of dating multiple women with the goal of just learning interacting with them and getting better at discerning their character.
Am I deluding myself, or is it a good strategy if you're looking to find a worthy partner with a good character for a LTR?
whytehorse2021 3y ago
That's how I met my wife. You can save yourself a lot of trouble by eliminating women who aren't marriage/kid minded. I used the pickup line "Hey, would you like to run away together, get married, and have a bunch of kids?". You'll get a lot of "I'm just dating right now" from modern women and you'll quickly realize they are a complete waste of time... perpetually single and dating but never getting married and having kids.
Musicgoon425 3y ago
Sounds like youre ok with being an emotional tampon. You do you. That's a cucks game for sure.
johnnysmallseed 3y ago
Only if you're into Christian game. Otherwise it's a buffer to protect you from potential rejection. "I didn't want sex anyways" when you undoubtedly fail.
pfeilmacher 3y ago
Date them and hold hands while they're fucking other guys? Not a good strategy, in my opinion.
MonkMode 3y ago
They will all see you as a Simp and leave. Women need sex.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
Yes and no. women want to be desired. Sex/physical attraction is their main method of being desired.
true also that most women enjoy sex, especially when the guy they are with is (enjoying them, is hot for them). Use me, do what you want with me, is normally what you will hear.
MonkMode 3y ago
I was celibate for 6 Mos during a restructuring phase of my life. The women I dated either ghosted me or fucked other men overtly.
Now the women I had ignored after that 6 Mos, they came at me like a banshee when I increased the attention a scosch.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
because you increased attention, and possibly added value to yourself/improved yourself?
For sure if you improved yourself and then give her some more attention. Like showing bacon to a dog. Good luck
hannulv 3y ago
Do you have a magic fucking palm? A bunny ranch girl you can't give up? Porn star crush? Sex is a biological need. Men are wired to be ready for sex all of the time.
If a girl broadcasts her sexual availability to you, and you don't pounce, she reciprocates with contempt, despair, or scorn. If you don't make moves often and early, you become their girlfriend, and you will never get to see their character. This is truly a terrible idea.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
Nice hamster bro.
Totally. Just like going to the car dealership and buying the car without testing. What kind of unicorn delusions you have in your head? Sex is your imperative, commitment hers.
You're giving your time/attention for free and get nothing in return. Go for it, it'll be a first hand experience, pun totally intended.
un_knownguy 3y ago
Woman are for sex, if you learn how to approach them in a non-sexual way you'll always be friendzoned
BootySpillingOut 3y ago
If you're not intimate with a girl you're dating you're just a friend.
That's not even RP that's just common sense lol.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
why can't you have sex with them while you do this?
Women want to be desired. They want to know you are attracted to them. This is the primary female mating item. (attraction).
You won't get to know a women really, without sex and without showing you are attracted to her. Again, if you aren't showing that interest, you'll be friend zoned or ghosted.
You want to see their character. Act chill about sex, let her talk and you will find out about her. If she's comfortable with you and thinks you are chill on sex, you won't (judge) her, she'll open up. Women love to talk about their past. You will learn