I have lost the interest I had in women after adopting the RP.
I loved the chase, now there is none coz I get them. If I don't, nexting is the next step but it's usually followed by them coming back.
I don't even recall the names of the majority of women I have been with.
Is it normal?
Women are like the trash on the sidewalk; kick it or not, it doesn't matter to me.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It's normal. I don't remember either. Any more I just negotiate a price with a hooker, cum, and leave. Then go home to my wife and put my dick in her for a few hours of that desirous sex. Then it's back to putting dents in the universe.
innovatium 2y ago
This is the same worry I have. I'm not sure if it's freeing or what. Because it's like when you understand the game, it's like it goes after a "script". And it doesn't have a bigger meaning or anything, it's just meaningless pleasure.
Atleast I can't see the meaning for the moment.
I think this was why Mystery in mystery method became depressed and suicidal if I'm not wrong.
The only positive I can see, if you use your knowledge to find someone you want to build something purposeful with, like a family for example. Otherwise, I wonder what the point is.
hannulv 2y ago
Sex has as much meaning as you want it to. For me the big difference between a human and a cumsock is the level of human bonding and connection. What gets me off is sexual submission, when a girl is so into you that she makes herself completely vulnerable to you.
You're wrong. Mystery mastered the behavioral psychology of pick-up, but he wasn't actually alpha, he was just a big simp-at-heart engaging in theatre. So as soon as he got oneitis and went LTR, he was zeroed out pretty quick. Being alpha in a relationship is a completely different animal, because it can't be an act. It has to be there when you're tired, when you're sick, when you're drunk, when you're high on post-coital oxytocin. It has to be something you become, not a performance you can wear like a costume. When the hat came off and he was eating breakfast, he was just another needy dude.
Girls are wired to break you, dominate you, and move on. This is why its so important to spin plates and not just do pickup. Pickup gives you important skills for an LTR, but not all the skills you need maintain dominance in a relationship. Dominance in a relationship is fucking hard. It is walking the tightrope of truly loving someone and being ready to burn it all down at the same moment.
A goal of spinning plates is to build an amazing life that girls complement. If its exhausting, then you're doing it wrong. While spinning plates you may find a girl that adds so much value to your life that you think "I could forsake all others for this one girl and be happy." So you get exclusive and date her a few years, and when you have zero doubts you put a ring on it, and pop out a couple of kids.
hannulv 2y ago
There are plenty of options to make this fun and more challenging:
Growing 2y ago
I get you.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
this sounds almost like the anger phase of the RP.
We all go through it. Once you realize what the game really is, how women actually process,etc.
So, you enjoyed the chase and now you don't. Why? bored? don't like the game anymore? No challenge?
You may want to just take a sabbatical from women and find out what you want to do, what motivates you, what do you want in your career/money,etc.
The girls will be there when you get back, just focus your efforts on something else.
Some women are worth investing in, but that pool is getting smaller and smaller. It's true.
Growing 2y ago
I'm past anger phase.
I think it's getting used to girls to an extent that I really don't put any value on them.
But yeah. I should up my challenge in other aspects.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
Most women do not have any value to (you, or to their man), other than a nut release.
It is hard to find those few women who do have some value they can add to (your) life.
Focus on you, what you want, your goals. Keep playing with the girls in the meantime, maybe you will find one worth some time. Also, you may be looking in the wrong places, for a girl who's worthy. that's something to think about. ie, if you only find girls on Tinder for example. Will probably be pretty much the same type of girl.
Boosted_Arrow 2y ago
Sounds to me like "You want it till you have it, and then you don't want it anymore" and "only the chase is thrilling" Now I would say, that this isn't rlly fullfilling you and tbh that might be good, bc now you can focus on sth in YOUR life, like your own business, a new hobby, whatever... I mean you have to be happy...
You say now you get the women. I'm working towards that stage. Could you tell me what it is, that is making you so successful? Is it rlly this lack of care derived from abundance or...? Would be rlly helpful if you could give me some advice here. Thx
Growing 2y ago
Much of it is charm/charisma and indifference.
un_knownguy 2y ago
it's because you need a goal, girls can't be your goal