A question and really good convo I had with one of my boys recently:
Would you rather have a wife who is everything you want in a woman (threesomes, great genetics for kids, verifiably loyal, etc.) but was in a five man gangbang shortly before you met her. No one knows or cares
A lifetime of weekly one night stands with girls who never call you back or show you love of any kind. Just get drunk, fuck you unenthusiastically, disappear and are genuinely embarrassed to have slept with you. No one knows or cares about your notch count
No altering the scenario. You get one or the other. Which one would you pick and why?