I'm a 16 year old guy who just had his first kiss and got his dick sucked. I went to a party and made out with this girl who i like a lot. She goes to a different school. We went down on each other but neither of us finished because we only had like 20 minutes and we kept getting walked in on and everyone was banging on the door. We had a good time after and she seemed really comfortable around me and also asked if we could hang out again and i also asked her if she wanted to be my hoco date and she said yes. She snapped me first the next day and everything seems to be going good but she takes forever to respond. Sometimes twenty minutes, mostly a couple hours, and now i'm on delivered for 23 hours. I can't tell if she likes me or it was just a one time thing. We were both sober as well
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johnnysmallseed 2y ago
Oneitis. I thought this place was a board to talk Red pill. All I see here is a bunch of Onitis posts by guys either trying to get a specific girl, or afraid of losing a girl.
johnjim424 2y ago
I'm 16 years old bro please cut me some slack.
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
Learn to get over that Disney fairytale.
johnjim424 2y ago
What disney fairytale? that there's a 9/10 girl with a great personality that i like that sucked me off and i want to hang out with her again and not fuck it up?
johnnysmallseed 2y ago
Scarcity mindset induced by oneitis is the typical hurdle young men need to get over. You read as desperate instead of a position of power.
hannulv 2y ago
She definitely liked you. Does she still like you? Has she found someone better? Time will tell.
Focus on other girls. Don't get needy. She might just be nervous, maybe she got shit from her friends, who knows? Maybe she feels like she was too much of a slut and feels like she'll have to fuck you, but she's not ready. Wait it out. Girls have a million things going through their head after something like that. She agreed to HoCo so just assume that it is still on unless you hear otherwise. I don't know how far out it is, but send the logistics a few days ahead and get her address.
Once, a 16-year old girl practically raped me, and then ghosted me for 3 days. We dated for years. My dick was too big and she had to get stitches. The experience of going to the doctor for sex stitches made her feel like a whore.
Don't worry about no reply, unless you sent some sort of question that begs an answer. Maybe she felt it was a natural conclusion to a dialog. If HoCo is a long way off. Maybe hit her up on the weekend to go ice-skating or something that's physical and public without any inherent sexual pressure. You can always get coffee or boba and go for a walk in the park after comfort is reestablished. Maybe you'll end up making out on the swingset.
dovictory 2y ago
yeah, exactly what he said.
Be patient man. I was your age only 3 years ago. A girl blew me at a party on saturday, never replied to the message I sent on sunday and told me the next week that she wanted us to be just friends. I didn't do anything wrong, it's just like that sometimes.
Just wait it out man. Don't be needy and fuck up like that. In the meantime, keep talking to girls
johnjim424 2y ago
I'm gonna try to take her to the beach on sunday. Hoco is like 2 weeks away and also i'm the shit on campus i'm only a sophomore and i'm the varsity starting qb and now a video of me and that girl making out is all over school. So i'm like a stud rn so it's not like i don't have options this girl was just so intoxicating and she tasted so good.
hannulv 2y ago
It sounds like you're in good shape. Think of it this way: expressions of interest are cool, but neediness makes pussies cracker-dry.
When people are warning you not to contact girls too much it is because most guys want the validation of a girl liking and sexually validating them more than they want the pussy its attached to. The more times you contact her and let yourself get anxious over it, it erodes confidence and leads to you having more cues and tells that express desperation and neediness. You will never figure out whats in her head and it doesn't matter, because what she does is all that really matters.
If I were you I would focus on riding the stud wave of HoCo and the social proof video to cultivate contact with as many hotties as you can at your shit school. You can just say weird noncommittal shit, "I'm kinda seeing someone, but I always wondered what it be like if WE hung out more. Maybe I'll see you at blah." Hell, see if you can line up a senior. The more attention and IOIs you are able to cultivate from other girls, the better all of your unconscious tells will project dominance, high value, and general "it"-factor with the girl you want to bang. The more you try to guess what she's thinking, the more potential you have for restless anxiety turning into desperation and neediness.
johnjim424 2y ago
I don't think it's gonna work. I asked her to hangout out sunday she said "i'll have to ask lemme see." i said ok just lemme know and now she's just sending me captionless snaps. I think i'm just gonna try to ft her tonight and see if she's full of shit or not
hannulv 2y ago
I would withdraw for a bit and leave the ball in her court, unless ft is already set up. It's not unusual for a 16 year old to have to ask about going somewhere, especially a date
She's either just a dork that doesn't really know what to say, or she's using an operant conditioning push-pull technique to get you to chase her. She wants you to chase her because its validating, even though she'll ultimately find you less arousing if you chase too aggressively. Never seem optionless. I don't know what you do with captionless snaps, but there's always something clever you can say without seeming needy if it feels like a dialogue should continue. If she sends you some pick of her toes, her mom, or her cat, you can always make a slightly clever sexually-framed response (unless you think she's skittish and it will scare her off). "Damn I could only see sideboob in that one." or "You should shave that pussy." or any number of infinite responses, that make a play on what she sent.
Also you should find out if her parents check her phone before being too racy, because if they do, they will for sure before a date.
johnjim424 2y ago
I said, "Hey i'm at practice rn. let's facetime at like 6 or sum." she said she was busy and then she said she didn't think she could hang out sunday either. I wrote back, "no problem. lemme know if you ever wanna hang out again. I do have to know though. Are you still going to hoco with me? I'm gonna line up a date so let me know asap." she said, something like i'm not ready for a serious relationship rn. I half swiped on it so it still says delivered for her. I am debating between doing three things. 1) say that i wasn't looking for anything serious and that i just thought she was cute and fun to be around and that were just teenagers and we both wanna just have fun 2) ghost her and ask someone else 3) Text her how i feel after my game tonight but approach my plan b after the game and ask her out to hoco
hannulv 2y ago
I'd go with "Neither am I
johnjim424 2y ago
There's two girls i like that were at the party and i think i'll ask one of them if it doesn't work out. I don't really know either of them but i like them a lot looks wise. one of them introduced themselves and I introduced myself to the other one. one was acting kind of weird after i hooked up with the girl but both of them kept looking at me. i haven't showed neediness to the girl btw i am matching her energy