I have a plate that loves to visit my apartment almost every 3 days but has only had sex with me twice. She basically wants to take all my time but won't give anything in return. What do I do about this? Next? I tried soft-nexting but she doesn't change her behavior. She just comes over to my nice apartment and watches Netflix and won't even want me close to her. When she leaves she calls me almost every 6 hours to keep tabs - she won't let me go, she won't let me be great. Haha. What do you guys think?