Why do we like or maybe it's just me lol girls who play hard to get? I think part of it is the challenge etc. But I'm trying to understand the deeper psychology behind it as I would like to avoid these girls in the future ahahah it's much easier when girls simp for me and I can focus on my mission. Or is it as simple as nexting them as soon as they show these traits so I don't get trapped in their game?
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bjjneck 4y ago
The vast majority of girls now days aren't playing hard to get. Those individual girls just think they are just hard for you to get. Find the girls that are easy for you to get and you will understand one girls beta is another girls alpha.
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financehardo420 4y ago
literally this
master-of-losers 4y ago
Girls have to be selective about who they allow to inseminate them. By playing hard to get, they're filtering out guys that aren't able to get past the hard-to-get barrier. These guys are less likely to be reproductively successful because they're less likely to get past other girl's hard-to-get barriers. A guy might prefer hard-to-get girls because they are reproductively more successful and less promiscuous, therefore less likely to carry STDs or have a lot of competing sperm.
JBPW 4y ago
What would you say the behavior of someone who gets past that barrier vs someone who doesn't get past that barrier look like?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I think it's just you. I like girls that are easy to get. Ain't nobody got time for stupid games.
SheLarror1234 4y ago
Yea most serious men do not like girls who play hard to get. But the general appeal in a men's mind is that a "hard to get" girl is more likely to play hard to get with everyone. And that obviously means less bodycount and a sense of "virginity".
Only problem is, now and days a "hard to get" girl is playing deception. Redpillers know this, as well as most high value men. You'd think they are just blocking every men's sexual advances, but that's rarely ever the case. "Hard to get" girls are just like any other girl, just that they choose who to play hard to get with. This choice is always calculative and never without reason. For example, a girl could be playing hard to get on a guy whos rich or smart in order to purposely demonstrate a sense of purity, and in a sense boost her SMV.
And like a poster already said; "It’s not cute once you realize they’re probably fucking other guys and you aren’t allowed to ask if they are (and if you were they’d think you’re insecure because of it)."
In reality its just a waste of time at best. They are not what they preach themselves to be. You end up with a whole lot of games and nonsense.