I see my LTR what some would consider to be way too often (sometimes 4x per week), but lately, it seems to not be enough.

I think she may have emotional baggage that I had not known of going into the relationship, because recently every time I leave, she is begging me to come back, often times volunteering to pay for gas expenses and food costs.

I’m in a difficult spot because I know my girlfriend specifically requires more comfort than your average female due to her own self esteem issues. For example, I just left this morning, and she’s telling me she is having an “emotional breakdown” and misses me already. Additionally, she is at a college campus surrounded by chads, and admittedly, has a more… colorful sexual history than me. The fact is, this girl has been with guys with a higher SMV than me, consequently planting seeds of doubt in my own mind in regards to the longevity of this relationship. Oddly enough, there is a significant SMV gap between US (I’m an 8, fit, and she’s an HB6), but I could be a solid 10 and not have half of her options simply due to the circumstances she is in.

I’ve tried to balance the alpha and beta traits, and despite her seemingly not enjoying sex at times, she still offers it up and is eager to please. She showers me with affection, flexes me on her social media, and constantly vocalizes her “fear of losing me”.

This has me in a weird position. I can see her as often as I have been and not jeopardize my own personal growth (I work from home, gym in the mornings, see friends on the weekend), but I don’t know if this is jeopardizing the LTR itself. Do I continue comforting her to avoid a potential branch swing, or up the dread to avoid being turned into an emotional tampon?