Yo. Haven’t been focusing on girls recently, been trying to get my smv up for 1 month now (going pretty good so far). Past month has been super refreshing. Anyways, i started talking to more girls, not trying to impress or bang, just chilling having conversations. And I notice I have a harder time coming up with what to say to girls and I’m not as witty. Even girls I’m 100% not interested in. The most positive experiences I’ve had with girls involved is when I’m with other dudes and they join our conversation. Am I still putting them on a pedestal? I thought I wasn’t, but im good with other dudes, it’s only girls. So how do I fully detach from acting blue pill with girls??
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mr_Tobbor 4y ago
Life isn't just dating. Don't put so much interest on it.
Hiram_abiff 4y ago
I’m not really trying to date rn. Just wanna get better at conversing with everyone not just other guys.
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Most women suck at conversation. Here's a trick I use to keep me interested talking to them. It's called anchoring. Basically you get them to re-experience an emotion and then make them associate it with you. Like have them tell you about the best day of their life. Have them go into detail about what they felt. Have them close their eyes and describe it like they're reliving it. Then when they open their eyes they associate that feeling with your face(or hand on their leg).
Hiram_abiff 4y ago
Ayo that’s what I was looking for! Something fresh. I knew you’d show up here lol. It is true tho, especially teenage girls terrible at conversation most of the time.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yep, and everyone loves talking about themselves. So ask them about their job, family, school, whatever and they'll just blab all night. Memorize a few things about them and use it as a "we know each other very well" thing in the future.