Before I begin this let me say I have entirely fucked it, I attempted to bite off more than I could chew and my BP tendencies came back to bite me in the ass.
I’ll try keep it quick, at uni and started hooking up with a girl (with major red flags) that lives in the same house (around 25 of us). Told her that I only wanted to have sex and didn’t want anything exclusive, she didn’t and we fought a couple times but she ended up being okay with it.
However I got comfortable and stopped talking to other chicks (found it too difficult when she was always at home) so I developed oneitis for her, I realised (got upset when she hooked up with other people) and decided I’d end things and broke it off with her and pulled someone else the night before.
Next day I got extremely drunk and she kept trying to talk to me, I was drunk as fuck and was showing big BP errors (saying I was scared to see her pull/fuck other people) and eventually said we could be exclusive until end of uni (November) and we’d go back to our different homes and get over each other (living separately next year).
However, today all her friends have been telling me congratulations and saying how they knew we’d get together and it’s become apparent to me that she must think we’re full on at the start of a relationship (one that I will not have, she’s toxic and a pathological liar). I’m a bit lost at what to do, right now I think I just go with it until the end of uni and tell that we should have separate over the holiday/lose contact with her. Any advice would be appreciated
Edit: I want to add that I’ve got a shitload to do with my studies so I don’t want to have her/all our roommates in a fucking war over this, I’m looking for a combination of the right way to do things and in a way that won’t fuck up my university.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 4y ago
"pathological liar"
1) Gather/save as much evidence as possible (text messages etc. as possible that this was all consensual sex, just don't let them know that's what you're doing obviously
2) Find a way to move to a new place ASAP. Hit up your friends, browse reputable roommate websites, sometimes universities have designated places for students to post roommate requests etc. (Just don't tell the uni what your problem is no matter what they ask, but ask them if they have a place with postings on campus)
3) Don't shit where you eat, this wasn't just shitting where you eat, this was shitting where you live and eat
whytehorse2021 4y ago
That's not how you do it. You're supposed to tell her you're not attracted to slutty women for relationships, only women who sleep with just you. Once that's established, sure she's free to sleep with other guys but she'll lose you. So instead she will share you with other women.
jormigaso 4y ago
why do you care dude? do whatever the fuck you want, big error with oneitis and ltr a bitch like that.
jriver11 4y ago
I mean, end of November is only two months to be exclusive. I'd just enjoy your time together and stop overthinking it. It's kinda freeing fucking with a girl you know is a psycho. It gives you great frame control since you know not to get emotionally invested. Love bomb the shit out of her then break it off in December.
Keep your shit tight tho. If she's as toxic as you say then her friends are likely just as bad. Don't text or do anything that could be misconstrued as abusive or rapey.
iautrptgl 4y ago
Thanks mate, do you not think it'll be better to tell her now and get it over it? Right now I just can't stand even looking at her, let alone doing anything with her
jriver11 4y ago
No do not tell her. I know it sucks to know other guys have been inside her. Women all know that fucking other guys is the only way to get back at us. If you harden yourself against caring about that, you take away their only leverage. That is "frame" and that will attract other women to you. Sooner or later the problem of them fucking other guys will go away