So...The last time I went to approach a girl was in December, I took her number but she didn’t want to go out with me.
Then India was hit by a COVID and we went into a lockdown.
Today I went to approach girls in a college and basically, it just fucking hell affected me.
So, a few things I learned was even if I am lifting, I am still a pussy. I thought gaining muscle will make it easier, but from inside I am still a pussy. “Girls already have one they don’t need another” I know.
Tell me something, When I was about to approach any girl, I felt my body and heart felt heavy. Why? I had this scenario in my brain where I go and talk to this girl, of-course the scenario inside the brain does not go as planned but I just had this feeling of “what could go wrong? it’s just a girl” yet every-time I would walk towards a girl, I will feel heavy. Maybe, I am not outcome-independent. Maybe I wanted to ‘win’.
So after 90 minutes of chickening out (yup 90 minutes). I see a girl sitting alone on a bench.
I’ve read the sidebar game material, pook, MM, and the game.
I go and sit beside her, not in ‘front’ but by her side. I say “hello” and she replies “hello”.
So, I know TRP dislikes canned material, but I decided to go with Style’s cologne opener because I just don’t have a ‘game’, fake it till you make it. Note that this is a very small college in a small part of the country, No one knows who Mystery or Style is and they never have heard their openers before.
I say “I need an opinion on something”, she goes “yes”.
“I have two different fragrances on each of my wrists, can you help me decide which one is better?”
and oh fuck, she gives me a look that I will never forget, that look had “disgust” written all over it. Maybe because I was nervous and she could see right through me.
I realized that this opener doesn’t work well because it would have been very awkward for a chick to smell my wrists in college in public (maybe an Indian thing).
After she makes that face, I just say “Don’t worry it ain’t chloroform”...bruh.
She like nodes no with her face and I ask her once more by nodding my head.
At last, she says “ Why me? There are so many people here, ask someone else”.
After this lovely Interaction, I wouldn’t lie...I wasn’t feeling really good. Like...I felt maybe this is not for me...I know that I can’t let it get personal, but It just really affected me psychologically even when I know It’s okay to fail.
and as I wasn’t feeling good, I decided to go to the gym, Gym makes me feel at peace.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Obviously you've never played the "smell my finger" game. I would be very loathed to smell an Indian's wrist knowing what I know they do with their hands.
Anyway, you've been brainwashed all your life to be a beta cuck. You feel like you're breaking some rule by exercising your agency and you're flooded with guilt and shame. So effective is the brainwashing. Take a step back and ask yourself why this is happening. What is the thought process here? Fear of rejection?
Hanscheezburger 2y ago
that's a really tough line to pull off with complete strangers. you might succeed if you're very attractive and the girl already has a lot of IOIs. Still you're lucky she didn't call security lol
placer 2y ago
Daygame, Nightgame, you name it game is really tough in India. Over at the old Roosh forum, India was notorious for being one of the worst countries to game in. So, yeah, approaches will be harder and getting interest will be more challenging there.
But don’t give up!
aceflies 2y ago
So is there no other way around? Other than moving to a different country or changing cities.
MonkMode 2y ago
Get at least one or two masculine men with higher numbers. Have them with you pre-approach. Usually best if they don't approach with or coach them to just stfu while you game.
AllBlack087 2y ago
You need to change your mind frame.Instead ask yourself,what would happen if I use the exact same line(“I have two different fragrances on each of my wrists, can you help me decide which one is better?”) on 50 different girls? Would you think that all of them will react the same. If you approached 50 guys and asked them that,would you think that all would act the same. You probbably have been in a contact with a lot of guys,through your life. Do all of them act,think the same,are their personallities and temper the same,or do you get easier with some than the others?
Also,I have a friend who is the best definition of alpha I could ever see.He is 6'3,wide as two fridges,wide shoulders,narrow hips,has probbably at least 20kg of pure muscle,he can get in a week coming to foreign country apartment full of girls if he wants,fucked a lot of them,he is very confident and cocky,rich,brave has a lot of powerful people around him,wear expensive clothes,travel... I was the real witness of him approching girl on a bench in park,who was nothing special,he asked her if he can sit there as a opener,10 seconds later,she made a face and run away from the bench,other my friends were laughing at him,he looked at the floor,sweared her silently.He was down for 5 minutes,after that his level of confidence returned like it was never touched before,then later he approached another and she ignored him. But he does it ever day regardless,and he is having a lot of sex and is vey confident,in my opinion too much to the level that it gets annoying.