What is the evolutionary reason for men to enjoy blowjobs so much? Shouldn't we not want to get blowjobs and want to fuck her pussy instead? Why do we (or I, not sure how many others can relate) find it so satisfying to cum in her mouth?
I've read 'Sperm Wars' by Robin Baker and he gives a reason for why women should enjoy giving blowjobs. He argues that it gives them a chance to taste our dick and make sure we don't have diseases. To a lesser degree, it might give them a chance to check for infidelity, if they can taste another womans vaginal fluids on it. This should cause women to enjoy giving blowjobs and men to want to avoid them.
In practice however, I find that men enjoy receiving blowjobs much more than women enjoy giving them.
Online searches give useless results.
KirthWGersen 4y ago
In humans, most sex has no direct connection with procreation. People do it for fun, to create bonds, for revenge, boredom, obligation, to raise social status, celebration, pleasure, to express affection, submission, dominance, validation, etc.
You might like to try out the book "Why women have sex" by Meston & Buss. It goes through about 200 reasons why women have sex.
master-of-losers 4y ago
Thanks a lot for the suggestion! The reviews look very promising. I generally find that it's hard to find resources that explain human mating behavior from an evolutionary perspective and are not blue pill censored. I loved 'Red Queen' and 'Sperm Wars' so I'm excited to have a next book to follow up on this topic.
Musicgoon425 4y ago
Here's what you do: go blow a fair sample of guys to completion. Ask them how much they liked it. Then ask them the next time if they would rather finish in your ass or your mouth?
What the fuck is this bro? Guys love busting nuts. That's it.
What the hell are you trying to get out of this question?
MonkMode 4y ago
Lol, my thoughts to. Like why do I love cheesecake and other people don't.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
I don't enjoy blow jobs. There is no evolutionary reason for them other than for a woman who can't have sex to be able to retain a man or a man with erectile dysfunction to be ejaculated.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
For me it's a sign of dominance, and always has been. I usually have women on their knees doing that, not when I am laying down horizontally, and it's the only way I can nut faster; women who refuse initially realise in the end is easier to get me off this way, and they go into submission eventually.