32M, was fortunate to be good looking, girls always fell for me with little to no effort. Am new here so was wondering what you guys think about situations where sometimes pushing them ladies a bit too much. Let's put a context to that:
I know when girls like me, or at least most of them, even if there is no IOI per se, just from the way they look at me; so I've always took advantage of that, meaning that several times when I encountered strong LMR from these women, I actually became somehow violent and forcing them to have sex.
How did I do that? By forcing them into physical submission mainly by immobilizing them, tearing down their clothes (pants, panties, blouses so on so forth - had so many favourite clothes that I had to give away to them because they couldn't wear what they initially had on) and than forcefully penetrating them which they start enjoying shortly after I did (usually it took me 1-2 minutes of forced penetration, after which they became submissive and started enjoying and reciprocating).
My last similar experience (2 years ago) ended differently, meaning that the lady in question, 26F HB8 at that time, fell for me, got disappointed cause I was spinning other plates and have been honest about it after a while (I kindof liked her as well, so I wanted to be sure that I keep her for a while, see where it goes), we ended things in tears from her side and the same night she goes to one of my buddies I was hanging with at that time and fucks him after this dude gets her drunk and all emotional by playing the guitar.
She called me after a couple of weeks, telling me what happened and that she can't live with herself for what she has done (having sex with some other guy just to forget me and that this is not her at all and how could she possibly have done that so on so forth) I calmed her down telling her all will be good and stop thinking about herself like that as she was a smart woman, studying PHD in engineering, we didn't speak after that.
We met after 1 year, I insisted as I've seen we're in the same city at that time, she agreed after I've been really pushy, we stood in my car in front of her airbnb (she didn't wanna go anywhere) and she told me that she gave up men after everything that happened between us and now she's in a relationship with a woman which is similar to me but more mature. I've noticed recently that they got married and I was baffled because I knew her since long time...and she was never a lesbian, I mean she said that she had one experience of kissing one female friend of hers in college and she didn't like it that much.
I guess I had 2 questions in the end, one regarding "rape" and the other of affecting other people lives.
P.S: never been accused of rape, and all women which I forced into sexual submission came back for more.
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pfeilmacher 4y ago
I think, by definition, that's definitely rape. Moral implications aside, you're playing a very dangerous game when you don't have to. Be better than that. Jfc.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Yeah....I always thought that if they enjoy it, and they want it, means there was no raping involved...fucked up...I know...And since that experience I had I couldn't do that anymore...maybe I should mention this as a later edit. I guess the title should be "I got away with rape" even tho I never felt it at that time, I realized I might ve changed someone s course of life and couldn't do it anymore.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Later Edit (I don't know how to edit the post itself, please enlighten if possible):
I couldn't do that anymore after this experience, and also started therapy later on where it was discovered that I have psychopathic tendencies. (Working on that though, I guess that's why I ended up here on this forum as well, to improve myself)
placer 4y ago
There is nothing wrong with BDSM and there’s nothing wrong with rough sex. However, the BDSM community has strong boundaries to ensure that consent is established. This means boundaries are established before having rough forceful sex (which yes, does turn on a lot of women).
One very key boundary with BDSM is a safe word. This is a word, usually a color (such as “purple”) established before a BDSM session starts, that indicates to the partner that things have gone too far and to stop things.
A lot of women love rough forced sex. However, some do not, and in today’s day and age of #MeToo and sex-hating puritans determining public discourse, it’s very dangerous to push boundaries with someone we do not know very well.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Wise words sir. Thank you for sharing and caring.
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RedPillNeo 4y ago
Black Pill has some sense up to a point (just documented myself about it as I never heard of it so take my comments with a pinch of salt), at least some of my life experience says that; see my other post I made since I joined the community..."Woman asks for kid considering genetics". And yeah, it might be truthful to some degree at least, one of the main discussion points during my therapy was the lack of being able to find merit in what I've done to deserve this good life, as I realized by being honest to myself that I've gained much just by looks...ie: being successful career wise, having women offering to me, begging me to let them pregnant even tho they were in a relationship with someone else, for fuck sakes even my ex fiancé came to me 1 year later after we broke up, 25F, which was in a new LTR with a blue pill dude (don't get me wrong, he seemed more powerful physical than I am) who had photos everywhere with her on social media (while she still kept photos with me), begging me to leave her pregnant with my kid as she doesn't want her boyfriends genes...basically offering herself to me freely whenever I wanted, she even gave me her new home keys to come whenever I want and fuck her, telling me it was safe because her boyfriend didn't have them nor she was inviting him at her place...fucked up bro...as she's keeping that dude to marry him...AWALT
Musicgoon425 4y ago
Bro that shit sound very rape heavy and very light on game.
You got them to submit so they didn't end up floating face down in a river.
If ,"Cosby game", works for you, that's cool. Im just saying that I respect guys that are smooth. I would be very careful with that shit in the future.
And for the record girls can make out with you and still be bi. Quit doing stupid shit.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Thanks bro. Already done that. Just discovered TRP community so am all for sharing (also past experiences) from what it seems to be an AMOG point of view.
True that they can be bi, I was in an open relationship with a bi chick, and have many lesbian friends, but this one chick dude...she never seemed to have that kind of orientation...I dunno, it was a silver lining for me personally as I stopped doing it.
P.S: what's "Cosby game"? Couldn't find anything enlightening online.
MonkMode 4y ago
I wish I could get erect like that. If they aren't grabbing at me,I'm very turned off. Even with viagra.
Any thoughts on how you get turned on like this? I was recently with a chick I feel this method would have actually worked.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Might not be the best person to give advice as I am a "dude with psychopathic tendencies" but I can tell you how I see it:
Dominance and punishment (for being a bad lil bitch) turnes me on.
One example from my past was this one chick, 23F, which was all over me, kissing passionately, touching my dick through my pants, we were just outside her apartment around 03 am, but she didn't want to take me in nor to let me put my hand in her panties, until I felt that she was all wet through her jeans (chick was leaking like niagara)...that was it, in my mind she couldn't say no to me anymore, so I teared her jeans off for being a lil bad bitch trying to give me blue balls.
I guess I get hard when women get hard as well and I can feel it from them, different type of cues, how they breathe, how they moan, how they touch me, grab me, so on so forth, at things I do to them.
As far as I'm concerned it's a game of power, and I am dominant, she needs to be submissive. When she isn't submissive I have no pleasure in it (it's like I'm not conquering anything thus I have no gain in pleasure but a true challenge ahead, which gets me hard).
Even when women stay on top, if they don't do what I ask them, I need to "punish" them so I can get it hard, slapping their ass/titties, grabbing them strongly from the waist, they usually reciprocate and contract their vagina, which gives me even more pleasure.
MonkMode 4y ago
And that probably would have worked on chick #2.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Most likely...fucked up but true. What was the cue that made you think she would go for it if you would have imposed your dominance?
MonkMode 4y ago
She was all hot and rough with me but would swat my hand from her pants. She welcomed my dick down her throat though
Other chick was giving hard Nos, but when I was taking her back to town from my place I unbuckeled her seat belt and grabbed her by the hair. She didn't resist but I did puss out because she gave me rape victim vibes earlier
MonkMode 4y ago
So my recent ex used gets turned on by serial rapist shows. Murder mysterys. Etc. I think a lot of women fall in this category.
I remember two distinct shows. One a serial rape/killer that once finally caught was solicited by gorgeous women while in prison awaiting death row. He targeted mainly elderly people, so like hb 1-3. Once he becomes famous, hb 7-9s are sending him nudes and shit.
Another serial rapist, a true rapist. He legitimately fucked up all his victims mentally, but one. This one lady sounded intrigued. She wanted to reach out to him and see how he was doing. It was the one victim where he asked her, "Am I adequate in size for you." While all the other interviews were distraught, this chick was calm and cool and wanting to know more of and where and what about him.
Are your tactics dangerous, fuck ya. Condoned, probably not. But I think I would like to know more because I've sensed similar situations from women where they want this kind of abuse. Which really it's not, it's you are overcome by passion for them and can't take it anymore.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
You know actually this was one of the things that was commonly mentioned by them, that they saw so much passion for them in my actions, that they felt they should just submit to me as they knew somehow I would take care of their pleasures and that they never felt sexually abused.
MonkMode 4y ago
The next question is are you just hitting and quitting? Or does the single passionate sex turn into marathon sex after she has submitted?
I generally like the sex where I come multiple times and they do to. One chick I think she was so nervous about pleasing me, she couldn't orgasm. Even though I had my fun, it was boring in comparison to someone you can tell is orgasming honestly.
Tieing that into your situation, it just doesn't sound like a long play. But I could be wrong.
RedPillNeo 4y ago
Marathon sex always and as I said all of them came back for more. I don't like ONS, as I don't fuck under HB7, so I usually like to get my fair share of the same pussy until I don't want it anymore and is just used goods.
Anonytrp 4y ago
Is this.spme troll shit. Get this rapist shit of of here you piece of shit.
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yes. The definition of rape is forced penetration.