"Frame", "confidence"? All this seems like it only works for a woman you're already in a relationship with. How in the hell do I deal with a girl who's really unengaging? How do I talk to her while "holding frame" and not come off as overly enthusiastic? How do I even meet girls without having to go out and get drunk? I just want to understand how all of this is supposed to work in the real world.
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YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
Read the sidebar.
Before you bother replying with some sperg shit, just do it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Go to the about part.
TRP Toolkit 1-4 would answer your questions.
It's something you need to internalize.
SwanSwanson 3y ago
Sidebar? I've read the sidebar most of it is just this pseudophilisophical crap, the fact that none of you can even answer this just proves my point none of what you guys typed gave me any sort of mental exhaustion or made me think about my position.
YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
Great, EXIT is that way brotha >>>
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placer 3y ago
Not to mention all the ebooks over at https://theredarchive.com/
SwanSwanson 3y ago
Okay, I'll read it.
MonkMode 3y ago
Man, I was still using the old sidebar from reddit. Didn't know someone(s) compiled this.
YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
I like the reddit one better. Nostalgia.
MonkMode 3y ago
State of mind. Yours is in the bar apparently. There is game to be had in all settings. Dance, billiards, lakes, shops, church, school, skydiving, biking, motorcycles, Golf, frolf, networking, restaurants, bowling, neighbors, gyms, hotels, need more?
YourOwnDisaster 3y ago
A breakdown on hot Nurse game plz.
SwanSwanson 3y ago
Most of these you don't even know the women, how the fuck will you get the ball rolling if you're just an average guy? Do I approach a woman on the treadmill and randomly start talking to her while she looks bored as hell? The only decent ones here is school and church.
MonkMode 3y ago
Get buff. Don't be average.
Gym, I wouldn't recommend a bitch on the treadmill because she'd likely have her back turned and she's busy, so yo are going to interrupt her flow. In passing, at the water hole, at the dumbells. Yo should already ha e some mass. If you are average, then you don't have any eye candy for her.
Musicgoon425 3y ago
What have you tried from the sidebar? It sounds like you want magic shit to happen on willpower alone.
unplugged69 3y ago
Frame means you have a solid foundation irrespective of the situation. It's not about fake confidence, women can see through that.
Its about knowing that whatever happens it will be fine, it doesn't phase you and you've seen it all before. You can't read and get it, you only truly get this with experience that's why we recommend talking to women, a lot of women, and you'll get into lots of situations and eventually learn to deal with all of them.
As for your example, what if a girl is not enthusiastic when you're approaching at a bar, you need to be outcome independent and realise that even if she's not into you it's not the end of the world. Talk to her a bit, tease her that she's terrible at conversation in a playful way and then say you're going to chat with some friends and leave her hanging.
Then go talk to other dudes and establish social proof, become friends with other people in the bar, just talk to them, most people are nice and open.
Then approach her again later in the evening, I guarantee she will be a lot more responsive. If she isn't that's cool because you've been talking to people all night and you have others to talk to.
Frame isn't about getting women to like you instantly, you can't trick them, you can't negotiate attraction. Frame is about having the balls to talk to people and interact with them without being phased by the outcome, once you do that you'll find some women are into you and some are not and that's okay. Go get a number from the interested ones and ask them out on a date, be direct as they appreciate that.
Let me know if you have any questions