Basically I'm moving to US next year and a girl I'm casually talking (met in cod) lives there. This girl has made a lot of money in stocks and is really pretty, I don't wanna elaborate too much but you understand why I wanna try to link up when I move. Problem is, I have zero interest in online relationships or to try to keep her interest by faking something like that and I'm busy with other woman and my own life. We are friendly right now but I know she's really into me, so how do I string her along til I can meet her in 9 months without her forgetting about me or having to do cringe stuff via cam? Disqualify myself as a romantic partner and keep it casual til meet up? Thanks.
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
Go watch the film "Bali Cowboys". Give her nothing, take from her EVERYTHING!
Freeyoghurt 2y ago
Just wanna add that i know she's probably talking to a dussin other guys, and if i move and we never meet up that's fine, but please do tell what you'd do in said situation.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
This whole thing is cringe. You have a virtual friend that you want to make more than a virtual friend?
If you can't set the tone that you want to fuck her now, as in set a date and see her IN PERSON, you're diluting yourself in whatever "Plans" you have.
You're asking for advice in social contracts and we don't deal with those... mostly because they're set for disappointment.
Alternatively, if she's that into you, she'd catch a plane, train or automobile to come suck your cock. She's not doing that is she?
Don't invest in social contracts.
Freeyoghurt 2y ago
Yeah but not really, I'm asking what to do to maximize my chances without investing. I have you a scenario and asked for advice on the situation, whether it pans out or not I won't be to bothered, just asking how others would play it.
master-of-losers 2y ago
I've done this once, I strung it out for 2 years and then I met her and fucked her. I would go hot-cold, calling her regularly and keeping the conversations very sexual, and then freezing out for a while, thereby limiting investment. I don't know if this is the optimal way to do it (my sample size is one), but this worked for me.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Uhhhh ok.
Wait are you're asking how to string a girl along for some sort of long-con?
Right...
Freeyoghurt 2y ago
Not really, she is incredibly wealthy and it'd be nice to have such a friend, I just wanna meet her in person at some point. If you don't wanna help stop cluttering the thread with your passive aggressive shit.
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Again. You're playing a long con. Get your head out of your ass and stop asking how to scam people.
MonkMode 2y ago
It's funny how his ego is telling himself, "I'm not conning, I'm just..." the hamster wheel is real in us all.
OP, trp isn't about stringing girls along for any reason, sex, money, relationships. You are in a unique situation that trp doesn't apply to, I. E. You are writing your own dialect.
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Jester 2y ago
case of oneitis
if you enjoy playing cod with her, keep doing that but don't you dare try to make it anything other than friends playing cod prior to moving to the US. after you move you can push for a meet up if you wants BUT ONLY IF you live in the same city as her... you didn't specify in your post but if you are going to be living more than a 30 minute drive from her you are wasting your time