Again, just starting the "dating and plating" thing. Finally getting a large sum of numbers of invested prospects. No official plates (fuck buddies) yet.
But every time I land a prospect I find my mind Space filling up with logistics. I try for 1-2 numbers per day. Call X, Set up Date with Y, Text Z, so on and so forth. This is perpetuating in my workouts, reading, writing, etc. I get stuff done, but it's probably at 60% quality and focus.
Is this just something you get proficient at with experience? Historically I'm the habitual monogamous, so never needed to coordinate multiple dates.
I can just see how my less successful friends in my life that plated 100s lives were affected if they spent their youth doing this.
MonkMode 2y ago
Also, how are you stacking dates? Multiple in a day? One per day? Any time frame per date? Limit it to 1 hr for first date? Invite over 2nd?
I live 20 minutes from town and not a lot of date worthy places near me.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I used to have a little black book of numbers I could flip through and make a bunch of calls and get something going. It was very efficient but the work up front was pretty time consuming. After enough went cold I would go to parties and get new numbers. When you get to my age, you have more money than time so prostitutes are the most efficient means to an end. I never spend more than a few minutes with a woman before my dick is in her. I've already done enough of that sex where the woman desires me that I'm over it. I just want to exchange bodily fluids and get back on my purpose.
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Here's what I see all the time. Guys focus on metrics. Numbers, timing statistics etc... It's all bullshit. It will lead you down a path that's very unsuccessful and hard to manage.
Every time you engage with a woman you have a shot. So just take every shot. Where guys go wrong is they forget one thing: this should be fun. Metrics aren't fun. Counting numbers I dates isn't fun. The more you continue down this path, the less fun you have until you're completely frustrated and as unsuccessful as an incel.
Stop counting and keeping metrics. Live your life. If a cute girl comes along, shoot your shot. Don't think so hard about everything.