If I'm on a date with a girl (one I'm already fucking) and she starts talking about her emotions and stuff, how should I let her know that I don't want to talk about that? I realize that women do have lots of very strong emotions, therefore her emotions are real and valid, I just don't want to waste my time listening to them. Is there a way to stop her without being an asshole about it? How do you guys go about this?
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Musicgoon425 2y ago
You listen for a small while and then say ,"I can understand that". Then you steer the conversation. Talk about something else. Always be leading.
unplugged69 2y ago
You need to lead the conversation, even if she does 60% of talking you decide where the conversations go and women respect that. If she notices you're bored but too shy to speak up then she will lose respect because you acted beta.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Neuro-linguistic programming has entered the chat. Have her tell you about the happiest day of her life. Get her to re-experience the emotions, then have her look at you while you touch her. She'll anchor that emotion to you touching her.
AlphaFit 2y ago
Interesting idea, I'm gonna try this.
master-of-losers 2y ago
Great idea, I'll try anchoring those good emotions to me fucking her!
whytehorse2021 2y ago
oh yeah, watch her get moist just by seeing your face
KirthWGersen 2y ago
Listening to a woman's emotions is not a waste of time. It is a goldmine of information about her character and personality.
Allowing her to dwell on her emotions and cause her emotions to control your interaction, however, is dumb.
You need to learn to recognise and accept those emotions almost instantaneously, then guide her to the emotions you want her to feel. Listen, interrupt, go off on a tangent, flip back, laugh, employ irony, do whatever it takes to make her think to herself, "Every time I talk to this guy I feel great." Not because you listened to her complaining; but because after talking to you for a while, she forgets about those emotions and feels a whole bunch of different positive emotions.
In the most extreme cases, when a woman or a man has a serious need to talk about negative emotions, I give them 10 minutes tops. Any more than that is indulgent and cruel. A simp who listens just keeps her wallowing. I make her feel that if she comes to me with her problems, her problems suddenly don't seem so important anymore.
This is exactly the same as what you would do with a younger sister or a daughter.
master-of-losers 2y ago
Interesting advice! I usually just zone out and start thinking about other stuff (eg work) while she's blabbering. After a while she realizes what's happening and stops the blabbering. I guess I should start actively paying attention to them and try to guide them into a direction of more pleasant emotions. Thanks!