She always flirts really hard with me in a group setting. Saying VERY suggestive things towards me specifically every time we hang out as a group. Then when I try to talk to her alone she flirts a little bit but then shuts it down every time (happened twice now...first time I thought she was just playing hard to get). Does she just want attention? How do you deal with a girl like this? Withdrawal attention? Or should I just ignore it when she shuts it down and double-down to blow through her frame?
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lexor32 2y ago
Here's how our last conversation ended:
Me: You're the dumbest hoe I ever met
Her: PLS GKFTC fair
Me: At least ur learning your place
Her: Oh shush lmao goodnight dude
Me: gn
Here's the conversation before that one:
(I was trying to get nudes from her because she had joked that I should send her a dick pic all night)
Me: I'm not sure I get it but I'm too tired to break it down right now. You exhausting me begging for it all night
Her: pfft a little teasing never hurt nobody! you’ll live :) also fair the whole concept of reading fic is confusing but it’s just like that idk (she's into weird fanfic)
Me: (I just went to bed at this point didn't respond)
To me it feels like she's either in it for attention or losing interest because I showed interest by pretty much asking her for nudes. She also just seems to not be initiating conversation with me as much in general. I think I'm going to keep flirting with her when in a group but stop trying to isolate her, so it's clear it's just flirting and a joke to me. What do you think?
unplugged69 2y ago
Here's the thing bro, women do a lot of shit for attention and validation. The only way to check if she's into you, or if she's just an attention whore, is to kino and escalate. If that works proceed as normal, if it doesn't then avoid her and remove your attention. At this point she might come on to you to regain frame, I would ignore her but you can pump and dump at your own risk.
OPPTRP 2y ago
GKFTC?? What does this mean
lexor32 2y ago
She was slamming the keyboard in frustration as a joke
YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Too much talk and flirt, not enough escalation. Very much sounds like you're just idling in the same position. You're very obviously lacking something in person- whether it's your presentation, lack of kino or just failure to launch. At this point if you're noticing a withdrawal on her part, pull back Attention and validation as well. In the future, get to the point with chicks. Rejection isn't your enemy, it gives you useful information and is a time saver. If you want to fuck them spit it out (read:be direct). Sounds like a very roundabout way to poundtown
Hanscheezburger 2y ago
She probably is applying dread game to some other guy. You tried to isolate, didn't work. Save your time and soft next
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah I'm confused too. Reminds me of this 10 I worked with who would get me to go to bars and fund raisers she was getting paid to get chumps to go to. I'd show up, get 5 min attention, then she'd disappear. While it's fun to hang out at the zoo fund raiser after hours it's not cool to be near elephants while a bunch of idiots crank the bass and party while cranky elephants are trying to sleep. It's also fun to be invited to the cool kid's party and hit the roof top bar, but it's not fun to be offered $100 drinks at a bar some chick wanted to meet at.
pfeilmacher 2y ago
Escalate the shit out of the situation. When you're alone, grab her and kiss her. She's waiting for you to take the lead, after dropping tons of hints. Stop wasting your opportunities.