Learned to secure the date prior to taking a phone number in last chat.
Got a two numbers today of interested prospects. Nothing profound by our conversation, light Kino.
Is there a duration in between contact? One day, two day, today? Does it matter? I know bitches always wait at least an hour in between.
How are you phrasing the dates? One article said invite them over to just chill, I live 20 min from town and I go for broke college hoes.
How do I not sound gay/beta?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
If you already have a date you just remind them on the day of the date "See you at 8" or watever
unplugged69 2y ago
You decide when you want to reach out, having yourself as your starting mental point of origin is alpha, anything else including asking us when to text a whore is beta.
But anyway don't focus on the alpha/beta dichotomy too much, it can be damaging and it's only useful when explaining certain topics to noobs. In my opinion it gets taken way too far by some people who fail to fully internalize some redpill concepts and get stuck in the intermediate stage. Don't be that guy.
The rule of thumb is to strike while the iron is hot, waiting more than one day is not ideal if you don't have rapport with the bitch. But ultimately don't overthink it and do what you want, the key is that if she's not too keen you pull back. No matter what you do, you observe the 2/3 golden ratio. For every 3 texts you give her 2 back, every 3 words you give her 2 back, etc. Always keep her chasing and make yourself a scarce resource.
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
Go check out the channel Playing With Fire on youtube. Alex there focuses mainly on texting and watching it is probably time better spent than asking here.
If you copy that kind of style you wont sound gay/beta, but if you are its gonna shine through eventually lol. I'd work on that first
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Beta is waiting an arbitrary amount of time before contacting them. It's one of the gayest most autistic rules you can follow. Spend your time wisely and don't wait for a few days. By that time, the energy has gone cold.