Hello brothers.
Long story short: 4.7" erect dick here struggling to maintain frame and to being Chad. I know all the limitations and shit I have to face.. I just want to know how to react when women/other guys laugh at me, make me feel inferior or reject me. What would a born Chad do?
Thanks in advance
pfeilmacher 4y ago
It's all in your head, bro. 4.7 inches is plenty to get a woman off. Stop comparing yourself to other men and their penises.
I fucked a girl last week where I could only put about 3.5 inches in her before she started complaining.
99% of women do not care about your dick size. And the 1% that does, make her cum enough and she'll forget.
jormigaso 4y ago
why do they say the sweet spot is between 6-7" and some look with so much desire these 7"+ on porn then? ok, I can stop comparing but remember this thing is a constant battle, how can I beat a ripped Chad with a 6"+, I mean how can I retain a woman with my poor 4.7" if it's so easy to find something bigger? they will always settle for the best they can get, this makes abundance mindset really difficult and makes spinning plates almost impossible. Please help me, how can I maintain frame regardless of the exposed previously?
Reesescups 4y ago
A chad wouldn't care about his dick size. As long as it gets hard when you fuck, it doesn't matter. Fake it till you make it and show no signs of it bothering you, especially with her. "it's big enough to get the job done'. or 'still feels good when I fuck' are some good mindsets. Dick size is not really important in the grand scheme of things. I'm pretty skinny and balding, and I'm working on the balding part bothering me less. I say 'i think it makes me look dignified', and I really kind of believe it. Am I insecure about it? Fuck yes. But you have to 'build' a personality that is bigger than one aspect of your looks. Everyone is filled with insecurities, especially girls. I guarantee she's more worried about her flaws than yours. And as always, finger fuck her and eat her out so well, she won't care about your dick size.
jormigaso 4y ago
yeah the last part is noted. Good point, I thought I was 'inferior', it's not like I care much about it, it's more that I feel any woman can replace me with someone better (bigger dick) really easily so I can't play plates game, abundance mindset, etc. Because my 'options' are reduced (aka women that won't care about dick size which are not the majority). How would you handle the abundance mindset with this problem? I mean, most women won't want to repeat sex or just leave me in the bed alone once they see my fucking dick
Reesescups 4y ago
I really think the 'leave me in bed alone' is in your head. It's all about frame. If you act as if you are enough, not even great, but just ENOUGH, it shouldn't matter. If a girl is really that shallow about something a simple as your dick size, she kinda sucks, and you should move on. On the list of things that women look for in men, penis size, or even sex, would tend to be low I'd say.
Do YOU want to repeat sex after the first time? that is what should matter, not what she thinks. Your are boiling everything about you and your whole frame down to dick size. Build other aspects of your life that need improvement, you can't do anything about your dick size, so worrying about it wont help. Literally, act as if you have a big dick. Get out of your HEAD. The best way to do that is get dates and spin plates. Easier said than done, but once you are there, you will see it wont matter. You have a small dick mentality. Forget abundance right now, that's something you can't fake. Work on yourself to feel better as a WHOLE person. You are overthinking it. Work on your frame.
jormigaso 4y ago
ok how can I do that? any suggestions? what fucks me the most is that thought of not being enough, I truly feel I can be replaced really easily for a better dick or a genetic born Chad, any women would cheat on my easily as I couldn't make her happy.
what are the things that have more weight in this list then? status? money? frame? height?
Idk, I just want to be a Chad
splifferoo 4y ago
Wave it frantically like a sword if anyone gets to close.
jormigaso 4y ago
I assume this is a joke. If I do that I can just make things worse
splifferoo 4y ago
Ok In all seriousness I’m not sure, but try not to let it affect you I guess. That shit is hidden anyways. There’s like a million posts on here about your exact topic, all of which give some good advice I assume. Also your comments about being ‘Chad’ are a little misdirected in many ways. Watch Hamza on YouTube for a better understanding of why, his videos inspire you to be a better version of YOU, not the product another man’s successes. He’s kind of like alt-TRP.
jormigaso 4y ago
hidden until women see it and all the previous work on status, gym, money, frame, whatever goes to the shit, but ok, will watch him thanks for the recommendation brother
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Go for small chicks. I think Asian vaginas average 5" in length.
jormigaso 4y ago
yes I thought about this as well, go only for petite, the thing is they also will prefer a bigger dick anyways. So I think what I need is a way to overcome 'not being preferred', maintaining frame like a Chad
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Go read the Sex God Method. There's also a new penis enlargement surgery that costs $15k and actually works. Penuma is the name. It'll probably add an inch. In my experience as a bi guy, I don't like big dicks. Most women say the same thing. Sure it's fun to watch in porn but in practice it's no fun.
jormigaso 4y ago
already read it, the guy has 5.5 inch so 0.8 more than me. That surgery doesn't work, read the bad reviews online, tons of guys ended up worse, with an almost useless dick, infections, illness, etc.. prefer to keep masturbating alone with something that barely works than to destroy the pleasure completely.. and about the big dick thing, yes I know some people doesn't have that as a 'must', that's where my 'market audience' would be, the problem is that it reduces a lot my options (destroying opportunities of having abundance mindset) and at the end of the day I'm completely sure if one woman had to choose between my dick (4.7") and something more DECENT (not huge) like 5.5 - 6.5, they would immediately would go with the other guy, unless I become world-class at something, rich or Idk, and even there, because we already know all the 'beta bucks' narrative so I would be the beta and she would cheat with a well-endowed Chad. Any thoughts?
ks789 4y ago
You should listen to whytehorse2021 regarding Sex God Method. Take the confidence you think you need surrounding your dick and embody it within the sexual experience you give to women in the sack. My dick is not the focal point here, I use plenty of things like bed straps, paddle, outfits, you should be creating a Wonderland of Sex and you realize there are a lot more things to be insecure about than the size of your dick. Like, are you even getting the motion right? Are you saying what is turning her on? There are many other arenas to focus on, but oddly you are only focused on your dick. Would she prefer a 4.7" on a ripped, confident Chad like YOU or a 5.5-6.5" on a dad bod stoner? Your worth is NOT your dick size. You said "I'm thinking about becoming 15% body fat" if you aren't already there you have bigger problems than dick size. There is no need to be above 15% in my opinion unless you're like me and went full Mark Rippetoe powerlifter autist guzzling down chocolate milk and ice cream for "muh calories". Now I stay lean year round, eating clean, it's a lifestyle not a diet or workout change. Regardless, 4.7" is still enough you whip it out I can guarantee they won't laugh and run away. If you've gotten that far, they're committed to it.
jormigaso 4y ago
do you have any courses/book recommendations to learn about straps, paddle, outfits...? I already read sex god method and he doesn't teach these stuff there, I lack the experience when it comes to sex, I need to learn that from other resources to at least 'fake it' and not being so ridiculously bad the first times
My mind says the second without any doubts. He would give more pleasure, wouldn't he? Also, what happens if a confident ripped Chad with 6" appears? I'm fucked, how could I compete with him?
so definitely need to focus on that and forget the thing about the dick size, thanks god, hope you are right man, this thought of not being enough has been destroying my life
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Women don't get pleasure from vaginal penetration. Gotta hit the clit, doesn't matter how deep you go. My wife(Asian) was so tight when we first fucked that I had to use my pinky finger to start. You'd be surprised how small vaginas can be and at 6" I can make sex painful for many women.
jormigaso 4y ago
is that 6" bone pressed? I'm thinking about becoming 15% body fat, that could help me to achieve at least 5.1 to 5.5", but I must become really really fit and almost skinny