Girl and I started hooking up and pretty much almost immediately started dating. Not too long ago she said “needs to take things slow”, realizes she has to make herself happy first and just started going to therapy while hopping on ssri’s and adderall. I’m cool with all of this but I haven’t seen her in close to a month and this feels like it’s going nowhere. She’s also pretty spotty with texting. Any advice?
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Musicgoon425 4y ago
She's gone bro. Stop with this holding on bullshit. Go out and meet several new women.
RedPillRandySavage 4y ago
I’m inclined to agree but she just bought us tickets to a concert not too long ago
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
You can be inclined to believe whatever the fuck you want. You came to the redpill to see the truth right? Free your mind pussy.
She bought concert tickets for herself and whomever she chooses to replace you with.
MigosXdd 4y ago
On monday, woman can tell you what plans she has for you two in the future. On thursday, she may be saying that to another guy’s dick.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
but, but, he was HOT!
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
Girl code for "I need space". Give her ALL the space. Remove your attention, validation and communication completely. If she reaches out, tell her to come over and make it a night in. If she declines, tell her to hit you up when she changes her mind and leave it there.
Consider the concert plans dead.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
You got friend-zoned my brother from another mother.
unplugged69 4y ago
Sounds like you gave too many beta vibes and she lost interest. You need to go back to basics and read the sidebar and FULLY internalize it this time. She should never have said "need to take things slow" at the start because all you should be doing is fucking her and telling her to leave. You need to give "fuck boy" vibes and no boyfriend vibes at all, that will make her interested and want to chase you.
In the first few months the only bullshit she should be say is shit like "what are we" and "where is this going", and you deflect for as long as possible. Go spin plates and learn abundance, it sounds like you went too beta and scared her off. Come back once you've read the sidebar please.