I've been cold approaching women and I've had success. Then I took a break because of work and I started again. 2 weeks ago, I cold approached a Colombian chick, went on a date, then we fucked on the second date. For some reason, this shit is fucking with my ego. Let me explain why:
- She's really into me and especially because I'm French
- She has a great body. Very cute chick
- She is here on a tourist visa
- She works under the table (very hard worker).
- Amazing sex
- She's obviously does not have a lot of money
I'm not marrying this chick obviously and I always wear a rubber. I also do enjoy taking her on dates, she is very grateful and submissive.
However, I have this feeling always in the back of my mind that she's only hanging out with me because she has no other options. Like, it's like some white chick with 20 mother fuckers hitting her up and she chose me. It's hard to explain.
Are these feelings valid or this is just the result of my insecurities? Thank you,
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
Insecurities, but they'll go away the more success you have.
ScubaSteve9000 4y ago
Thanks man
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Musicgoon425 4y ago
Looking a gift horse in the mouth. It's imposter syndrome. You need to work on yourself bro. That's all in your head. She wouldn't fuck you if she didn't like you unless you're incredibly rich.
unplugged69 4y ago
Work on your frame, who cares why she does what she does. Your frame of mind should be your mental point of origin. Read up on stoicism to improve inner game.
The fake it till you make it is good advice but only gets you so far, stoicism elevates all your inner game not just when dealing with women.
throwawayobvi82 4y ago
I mean if she has other options it means she’s attractive. But you’re an option, maybe her number - so just be cool