37, always been in LTR ranging 2-10 years. Always seem to start from hooking up and fucking hard, insta attraction.
Getting numbers and dates now for plate mentality. I've gone on a couple of dates which were fun, but having mental blocks for second date where I should be pushing for sex.
What are good first date ideas? What are good second date ideas?
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
Bar. Your house.
MonkMode 4y ago
In process of that with plate 1. Plate 2, we had a short interaction downtown. Few days later we randomly end up at the same lake and I take her on a canoe ride, getting her number after words. I did light Kino (massage and random touch). With plate 2, would you still meet at bar or straight to my place for movies?
YourOwnDisaster 4y ago
I've had plenty of success with inviting girls over for dinner, opening a bottle of wine and having them cook with me. Food can be a powerful aphrodisiac when coupled with a good drink and good game. Afterwards, "Let's watch a movie in the next room babe".
unplugged69 4y ago
Basically don't over think it, if women want to fuck you they will and the date doesn't matter. On second date you won't get as much LMR so you can invite straight to your house for "Netflix and chill"
However I strongly recommend you go for it on the first date. Make sure you kino early and take her to 3 different venues, 3 bars is fine. Be hot and cold throughout the night and kiss her as early as possible but keep it brief and don't do a long makeout session because it disperses the sexual tension. Instead be hot and cold, invite to your house, let her chill for a bit and then kino and escalate.
If she says "we shouldn't so this" then reply with "you're right we shouldn't" pull back and maintain eye contact for a few seconds and then kiss her as if you are overcome with passion. That shit works wonders.
Also if you don't have sex by third date ghost her because she's playing you, and no more LTRs until you've practiced with plates for 1-2 years. It will improve your frame, game and abundance and make your next LTR much better
MonkMode 4y ago
Thanks. Extra characters for post.
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