There was a cute girl in the gym and she kept looking my way alot and flicking her hair, I went to approach I walked up and said hi, and we spoke a lot to each other. I asked her about the exercises she was doing, what muscles they worked and if it will help me doing XYZ. She responded happily, gave me eye contact, didn't give me one word answers, she just kept talking about her hobbies etc. Some time age I touched her and we spoke to each other and laughed a lot. Over the next couple of days we barely speak to each other. But in the last couple of days I walked to her and said her hi. She responded dismissive and she'd pull a face. Wtf, happened here?
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whytehorse2021 4y ago
Just look at what she does and not what she says.
dinnyskull 4y ago
This was our first meet up after lockdown. I met this girl at the gym one year or so ago, got her number, but she always has an excuse to see me. She also called me well dressed to my face.. said I was qoute “well dressed for a man” … weird way of putting it.
How should handle this? Why does she responded dismissive and she'd pull a face?
swafg 4y ago
you didn't get number during that first time you had a good convo w her? dumb.
you're hitting on the girls who goto your gym? retarded.
dinnyskull 4y ago
This was our first meet up after lockdown. I met this girl at the gym one year or so ago, got her number, but she always has an excuse to see me. She also called me well dressed to my face.. said I was quote “well dressed for a man” … weird way of putting it.
How should handle this? Why does she responded dismissive and she'd pull a face? Wtf, happened here?
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Hanscheezburger 4y ago
Could you share why you think it's retarded to hit on girls at the gym? As long as both of you are not regulars I think it's fine
swafg 4y ago
Lets say you hook up later and fuck her and you're not looking for LTR but she is.
"What are we" comes up then everything goes into shambles.
Now you have to see her at YOUR gym and fill the room with awkwardness and god-knows-what other bullshit she may be spreading about you there.
Hanscheezburger 4y ago
I get what you're saying. Don't shit where you eat.
Imo it would be fine if you were clear about what you want from the start.
Worst case, you can change gyms. It's not like quitting your job
Anonytrp 4y ago
you didn't escalate fast enough. need to ask for the number earlier, like first ask next time.
this opport is shot, completely ignore her. if she ever approaches you, go for hail mary, ask her to come over to your place for dinner. she'll probably reject you. how you handle the no is really important, just shrug it off, say 'OK', and go back to working out and ignore her completely.
Musicgoon425 4y ago
She might have been interested, but then you didn't ask for her number. You fucked this up.
dinnyskull 4y ago
This was our first meet up after lockdown. I met this girl at the gym one year or so ago, got her number, but she always has an excuse to see me. She also called me well dressed to my face.. said I was qoute “well dressed for a man” … weird way of putting it.
How should handle this? Why does she responded dismissive and she'd pull a face?
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