I have been into the redpill since 6 yrs now and accomplished a lot in the past years. There is one question I just cant wrap my head around.
To me: I am 28 yrs old and have a great Job working as a IT-Consultant for a german car company. I have been lifting for about 3 yrs and have a good body (11.5% body fat). I am confident as fuck and always go into life with the mindset there is no competition at the end I will win. Every single gurl I have dated in the past years have told me that they have never felt so good around someone and that they somehow trust me instantly (this is my strongest trait I would say because once I get a gurl on a date I have a success rate around 85 %). Optically I am not gifted nor ugly would rate myself a 7. Now to my actual question. My height is 173 cm (5'8) which makes me short. This is not a insecurity from me by the way. Before I went into my LTR which is 160 cm (5'3) I cold approached women who where 184 cm (6'1) tall. And succesfully plated a few. What I just cant understand is that if I am a woman and a guy who is a head shorter than me approaches me I would not give him any attention at all. But it was that these women where even more submissive to me. So my actual question is why does a short man even get his foot in the door with all woman not only the ones who are taller then him. I mean when im walking around and the streets are full of dudes who have a certain presence because of height why do women still go for men who are lets say between 163 cm - 177 cm. One small story to add to my confussion. I was on a party-holiday in Turkey with a few friends 2 yrs ago. We hung out at a beach bar where the venue was full of men who had good bodys and also had a certain height 185 cm-195 cm. Evendo I am shorter I represent myself as if these dudes are not a competition for me. And this Model from kazakhstan approached me at the beach bar who was around 180 cm tall and said I was cute. I exchanged numbers with her and fucked her the same night. She was a 9 in my book and could clearly have any one there so why would she approach me evendo I am shorter than her? I know its because I represent myself in a certain way but what exactly happens in a female brain that I am missing. Because for me a man who is 190 cm tall has a clear win over me in first impression even if he cant compare to me in the long run
hotmasterlovaz 4y ago
I understand where you are coming from. Do women prefer height? yes they do. I am as tall as you and i attract girls taller than me, even in front of guys that are ridiculously taller or more handsome or more buff. The reason you are confused as to why they would choose you is because you think like a man, Women's supposed standards or preferences are just that, a wish list. It is something that her conscious mind comes with. However mating decisions are an unconscious process for women, not an XYZ checklist. All her decisions are based on "how does he make me feel". Well buddy, you are making them feel just right and you are reaping the rewards.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
It's because you're not the most beautiful man and they know the Chads will just pump and dump them so they go for a 7 instead of a 10. Just ask any guy who reaches Chad level and they can tell you it gets harder to get women because of the Chad effect.
MonkMode 4y ago
Well done.
redhawkes 2 4y ago
Nice humble brag bro. Let those incels read and crywank to your post.
Own your shit and stop comparing yourself to other people. Keep going, frame is everything.
Mma67 4y ago
Im not sure what the question is here. You seem to be handling things just fine, what is it that you need? Do you need affirmations from us that you can hold frame and assert yourself to women without being outbid by a tall muscular alpha? Because it sounds like that’s what’s happening. You’re doing something right and I would guess that it’s maintaining confidence and not being shy around guys who you view as better looking or more desirable. It sounds like your have enough confidence to hold yourself up, but enough insecurity that you might develop Napoleon syndrome. My guess is that you’re smart and when you’re up against some dopey, tall, buff Chad, chicks like the more genuine feel of a guy that has intellect and can hold a conversation. Just my guess. Keep doing whatever you’re doing and don’t try to overcompensate.
Musicgoon425 4y ago
Good for you. Give yourself a pat on the back.