Is there a physical difference between having an orgasm while fucking vs when you jerk off to porn? Now obviously sex is better, but I'm trying to abstain from porn and orgasms alltogether unless it's having sex. Usually after porn I feel like human trash vs when having sex I feel like a fucking tiger that I am, but orgasm is the same.
Is the difference phisiological or is it purely psychological?
I know the mechanisms behind it, porn shame and animalistic sex and all that, wanted to know what your oppinion is on the matter.
MirandaPolly 4y ago
Masturbation is just a simple way of venting emotions, which is incomparable with sex. Making love is the satisfaction of body and mind. Of course, there are more ways to masturbate, you can choose a better one! If you can't find a partner to solve it, you can also use sex toys, it will be much better than simple masturbation. If you see these ass, I believe you will like it too https://fondlove.com/collections/realistic-masturbation
whytehorse2021 4y ago
You're training your brain to associate orgasmic pleasure with whatever porn you're looking at.
MonkMode 4y ago
Zero validation via masterbation.
orbilius 4y ago
Well, there's less friction than your hand. And the effects of death-grip are well know - basically, after a long time of masturbating with your hand, you'll have difficulty keeping an erection with a girl.
I wouldn't be surprised if the brain chemicals released are different as well. Serotonin promotes bonding. That's either not released during masturbation (because who are you supposed to bond with?) or it is, and the absence of a bonding partner desensitizes you to it.
Let's put it this way: there's a life you are "designed" by natural selection, to live. And theoretically, the further you are from that life, the greater the consequences. That's pretty obvious with things like food - you're not designed to have three large meals a day, you're designed to experience periodic fasting. It's less obvious with things like sex.
You're designed to want to fuck, and women are designed to inculcate in you feelings which make you stick around after fucking. This is why women are pretty, as opposed to just sexy. You're designed to experience something after you get your rocks off that keeps you invested in her.
What happens if you aren't getting that? Dunno. Maybe nothing.
I hope nothing bad happens because few women these days deserve this devotion.
Musicgoon425 4y ago
You won't feel accomplished of fufilled with masturbation. Your hand doesn't feel like a pussy and is predictable. You bond with someone and learn as you have sex.
Sex is a social activity. In a sense you're learning a social skill. It's also needed to keep an LTR and to keep your ltr from branch swinging.
Emotionally and physically they are vastly different.
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DominicTheTiger 4y ago
Mainly porn addiction. Intersestingly enough, it was Nofap that eventually led to me discovering TRP 4 years ago. Now, I do it to combat porn addiction and premature ejaculation.
placer 4y ago
Blasting inside of a woman without a condom on is much much better than any orgasm from masturbation. This is one of the big reasons I am LTR-only; I can not stand sex with a condom and I need to trust my partner concerning birth control and STDs.