Majority of dudes I come across are either blue pilled simps, clowns or degenerates whose hobbies include getting wasted on the weekends with strangers and doing drugs. Like what the fuck bro, no one wants to hit the gym, act with values or do anything productive, its just a big circle of fools looking for eachothers approval. craziest part is the fact I dont act like them or wanna associate with these type of people I sometimes feel theres something wrong with me and it makes me feel like outcast. I cant respect any of these people let alone build a friendship with them.
What are the best places to go and meet like minded trp dudes?
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Do you have hobbies? I met most of my friends from school, hobbies, social circle.
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BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
What do you mean online? I mean, hobbies like Tennis, soccer or BJJ, where you can meet mind like people
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Hanscheezburger 4y ago
There won't be many and it's a fact you have to accept. By pursuing your purpose either through hobby or work is how you find people with the same purpose as you. And from getting to know them you will decide whether they are good friends or not.
On the other hand, just because they're "red-pilled" doesn't mean they would be good friends for you.
I've known people from work who are talented, productive and ambitious but make very poor friends. They would backstab or step on others to achieve whatever goals they have. Meanwhile some others might just put on a facade to appear better to others. I also know some people who are content being an average man, prefer to have fun than doing risky things, yet they would come offer their help whenever I need them. They are the people I've kept in my life for a long time, while the first group I always have to be cautious of.
MonkMode 4y ago
Broship is about the same as plates. I have maybe one or two close friends. One I know from grade school. The other I met playing pool at a bar, neither of us drink.
The rest are aquaintences, e. g. plates. I may throw disc golf with them, skydive, rock climb, whatever, but rarely tell them my thoughts or have deep conversations. They are usually blue pull struggling in a blue relationship.
Trpvroy 4y ago
Yeah I feel you, although my acquaintances aint because they blue pilled they just guys that I dont trust and dont really respect like that to be my friend
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SheLarror1234 4y ago
I think the biggest part of redpill and actually being a man is realizing that men BUILD tribes, not find and join them. I saw a trend. Once you start getting your shit together, you eventually lose all of your old friends, and even finding new friends becomes something of great vanity. Whats the point of frendshit anyways?
BPasFuck 4y ago
There's a thing that happens as people age.
When you're a kid, friends are easy.
I like playing tag. You like playing tag? Let's be friends!
When you get older, not so much. In fact, as you're discovering, it becomes almost impossible.
People turn inward. They're too busy chasing the opposite sex. Chasing money. Chasing a career. Chasing chasing chasing.
I have good news, however. After a certain point, in your middle thirties, this trend peaks and starts to reverse course.
By the time you're in your 50s and 60s it's like this:
I like motorcycles. You like motorcycles? Let's be friends!
So, good luck. And try not to worry about it so much. Do your thing, and the friends will either show up or not.