2months ago i post here about my LTR who disrespect me(which i deserve but i can't accept) after she caught me fucking other girl.
few days ago we exchanged message , then i told her "meet me at X place i want to see you"
and she told me "i'm scared at you maybe you'll do something cuz i talk bad to you that day"
i told her what's done is done. but she keep insisting that she scared maybe i will punch or slap her lol i didn't do any physical to hurt her when we are still together that's why i don't know why she thinking like that where this idea came from. anyway this week i will see her how should i act in front of her? do i need to open about the way she disrespect me? how i will explicit that what she did is not acceptable?
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/267880/i_lost_my_frame_and_i_keep_saying_sorry_to_make_her_calm/6204034/
BPasFuck 4y ago
Dude. If this is what she's saying to your face, what is she saying to other people when you're not around?
"He's scary." "I think he's abusive." "He might kill me one day."
Shit like that.
So. Let's say you somehow convince her to show up. And you fuck. And she decides later that she regrets it.
"He raped me." "He's a rapist." "He rapes women."
You'll be lucky to avoid charges.
Cut this woman off and have nothing to do with her.
LudgerKresnik 4y ago
thanks i get you, wish i read this before i met her. but we already talked last night and now we both agreed to be just a "Friends" she also agreed to come to my house next week to drink with me so i can make her as my plate(no more upgrade).
her only reason why she's afraid to meet me because this is the first time she saw me how frustrating i am when she disrespect me like that and she said maybe i just want to meet her to hurt her.
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Musicgoon425 4y ago
What the hell is wrong with you. You got caught. It's over. You should be more honest that you're not exclusive.
Do you really think that seeing your ex when she is upset and talks about you hitting her is a good idea? Do you like rape and assault allegations?
She didn't disrespect you, you were playing a stupid game and you got caught.
LudgerKresnik 4y ago
bro you didn't understand, after that 2months she's not upset anymore(she's the one who initiate contact) but she's still scared that i will do something bad when i meet her cuz she disrespect me 2month ago. my only question here how i will act when i saw her this week like nothing happened?.
Parabola37 4y ago
MusicGoon425 is right. Let this one go. It's in your best interest and hers, regardless if she contacted you first.
placer 4y ago
Yeah, sounds like she’s not interested in seeing you again. This plate has long fallen off and shattered. Next! Remember abundance mentality.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
She probably did additional stuff you don't know about and that's why she's scared. Like maybe she told everyone you're abusive. I think you really need to get to the bottom of it why she feels that way before going any further. You also need to establish that you want a non-exclusive sexual relationship before going any further. Then you can get to the disrespect issue.