Anyone have advice on bi-polar women? I live with my mom and she tries to argue with me everyday. No matter how nice I am. It always results in an argument.
I bitch slapped her in the face yesterday and I feel I might have to do it again so she shuts up. However she will probably throw me out of the house if I do it again. I don't know what to do. One more year and I'll be gone. But i'm in the stretch of it. How do I deal with bi-polar women. Tips and tricks?
theironlion 5y ago
You don't, it's not worth it
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TheRedPillRipper 5y ago
First TRP is amoral. The issue is your Frame: It's weak. That you can't tolerate your own mother, and CHOOSE to resort to violence; says enough. NEVER REACT EMOTIONALLY; to any woman. Or man. It's beneath you.
Godspeed and good luck!
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whytehorse2021 5y ago
Dude that's what narcissists do. They start a fight so they can tell you how great they are. Just blow smoke up her ass until you leave. She just wants to hear how great she is. Narcissists need constant supply. The trick is doing it without them knowing you're doing it. Think of it like a work situation and she's your boss and you say things they want to hear whether it's true or not. Learn how to say "You're right" over and over again. Don't internalize any of it. When she says "I do everything around here" reply "You're right. I should do more". And then let that "should" be an excuse not to do more.
My mom is a hard core narcissist with the same bi-polar excuse. I started doing that trick with her and never did anything she asked me to unless it benefited me. I cut corners whenever I absolutely had to do something. I just put in the bare minimum effort. Mow the yard every 3 weeks instead of every week and say "Yeah I'm letting it go to seed so it thickens up". Do the edging once a year. Stuff like that.
Parabola37 5y ago
"How to deal with bipolar women."
You don't.
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Parabola37 5y ago
I have a bipolar relative, so I know a little bit of where you're coming from. The best thing you can do is create some distance and ALWAYS have the ability to walk away.
As far as having romantic relations with someone who is bipolar - don't do it. No matter how beautiful she is - don't do it.
Edit: forgot a word.
YourOwnDisaster 5y ago
Good luck in jail
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YourOwnDisaster 5y ago
No, but the next woman you try to do that shit to will certainly make sure your balls are in a vice. Cut the domestic violence shit out.
IamRedPilled 5y ago
I kekd out loud when you said you bitch slapped her. Honestly took this as a joke post on my initial read but yeah dude you shouldn't be bitch slapping anybody, especially your dumbass mom. Don't get emotional.
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Intrepid_Place53900 1 5y ago
You don't hit, apart from legal issues with that, it will not help.
You stay calm, in control. You try to talk them down from the frantic. If it's not working, you remove yourself calmly and let them know you will revisit this when things cool down.
Generally if it's a non-family member, I"m gone, simple to deal with. Family member , it's tough to just walk away.
When they are in a normal state, try to talk to them about this, how they acted,etc. Do they recognize it? Are they getting therapy, on medication?
WahmenLover 5y ago
unlike the other boys here, I'm not gonna pretend that laying hands on women is never necessary. But if you get to the point when it is, then you need to get out of the situation ASAP if possible, possible legal issues aside. Staying in a relationship with someone you frequently have to hit is just toxic. You deserve better. Make plans to move out ASAP. In the meantime you should understand that your mother is psychologically a toddler, and try to have compassion as you can muster. I'm sorry. I can relate more than I want to fully describe.