I had a show the other night (I’m in a band) and after the show two girls came up to me and started conversation. Both girls have been long time coworkers, nothing sexual. I knew as soon as they started chatting with me my girl was irritated. She thinks one of the coworkers has feelings for me and doesn’t like it.

After I was talking with both of my coworkers, I go back and sit down next to my girl. Her back is facing me and she says nothing for 5 minutes, then gets up and disappears. She comes back, grabs something, and I walk up to her and I say “What’s going on?” She walks right by me and doesn’t look me in the eye or say a word. She disappears for 20 minutes, gossiping to her cousin about the situation.

She comes back, I sit her down and have her explain her little pouty fit. I told her that when I speak to you, you look me in the eye and don’t ever walk away from me again. She lied and said she “didn’t see me” - I told her she was full of shit, because I stopped and stood right in front of her.

She broke down, admitted that she was upset at the fact that one of my coworkers has feeling for me. She was jealous of her before we were even in a relationship. She has trust issues from her previous relationship, and I told her if she is going to bring those issues into this one then I’m not going to waste my time. She apologized, broke down and said she is afraid of losing me. She tried to have sex with me when we got home, but I couldn’t get hard and said no. Was completely turned off.

The next day she was embarrassed and admitted to being extremely immature.

Was in in the wrong for chatting with my two coworkers after the show? I don’t understand. Maybe this is drama the relationship needed, it has been going pretty smooth for a year now.