I saw some old post, that "I don't know you" over text is a shit test, is that true? I mean it could be that the person you are interacting with is a fake, so wasn't sure here and just told her yes, that's why I bring my mom. Your thoughts about that "possible" shit test? Depending on her response, if it is something serious like: No, I really mean it - then ill comfort her obviously.
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Guyandtheroadtovictory 4y ago
"I don't know you well"
"Thats why we are talking - to get to know each other "
Shit test, probably.
Sir_Chad_Slayathot 4y ago
It was, she laughed at my answer and asked for the date afterward. That's really crazy, because many men will probably fail this one. Relieved that I gave her an Indirect fun answer
Guyandtheroadtovictory 4y ago
You really used this one mate? :D haha nice
Sir_Chad_Slayathot 4y ago
Yeah I think with being fun you don't do much wrong haha
Sir_Chad_Slayathot 4y ago
note: We didn't meet in reallife, I live in a small town and gaming here over Social Media is usually better. So I messaged her, we had short banter and after asking her out she came with that response "I don't know you well."
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Meh, some chicks just have standards. If I was looking to get married I'd entertain getting to know someone first before dating. I mean that's actually how I found my wife. The getting to know her part was me vetting her. Her not dating you until she knows you well enough is her vetting you. I didn't want to waste time dating party girls , damaged goods, single mothers, alpha widows, feminists, druggies, etc.
Red pill doesn't really help much with traditional women. Just start vetting her. "Do you want to be married? Do you want kids? How many? Do you want to be a housewife? Are you religious? Can you cook? Past relationships? Parents still married?". She'll be like "Dayum, this guy be vetting me too". See if you can get her to hang out, not on a date but just as friends. Once you spend time with a traditional woman it's a shock. Once you befriend one it's even more of a shock. I think of it like therapy spending time with traditional women after having been around modern women.
Sir_Chad_Slayathot 4y ago
but shouldn't these questions be answered in person rather then texting?
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yes, if possible. She hasn't even agreed to meet so you're stuck with texting. I screened my wife entirely online. Sure we eventually went to video chat but she was on the other side of the planet so not possible to do in person.
youarerarted 4y ago
Maybe gaming does not help with traditional women, but redpill definitely does. Being a strong, mission driven man is timeless.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Ironically, traditional women prioritize beta traits. This isn't necessarily a good thing but has the better of the two outcomes. I took the red pill 15 years into my marriage and realized I had both alpha and beta traits but over time those alpha traits faded as my testosterone dramatically declined. A modern woman would have divorced me and I wanted to divorce my wife because she was getting fat and the sex was meh. So I started to study red pill and up my alpha traits in preparation for finding a new woman. I needed to practice so I started practicing on my wife.
I learned that to have a good marriage you need both alpha and beta traits. When I resurrected my alpha traits I told my wife she's getting fat and I'm not attracted to fat chicks. Next day she's working out, fasting, and on a keto diet. I told her to stop being a layabout while the kids are in school all day and go get a job. She started CNA training right away. I got fit and dominant and she practically rapes me every day and sexually harasses me all the time. Can't even walk past her without her grabbing my dick. I told her do more in bed, now she's fucking like a porn star.
If you learn red pill and happen across one of these unicorn traditional women, you can have a happy, successful marriage AND life. Rollo literally saved my marriage.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
I bet it's because she doesn't know you.
Sometimes it's not a shit test.
Sir_Chad_Slayathot 4y ago
In my case it was, I thought that's the reason why you get to know each other when meeting up.
How would you proceed if it weren't a shit test?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
That's how men see it. "Let's meet up and get to know each other".
When women say "I don't know you", it's not a literal thing. OF COURSE you don't know each other, that's why you're trying to arrange this.
I don't think it's a shit test, but it isn't meant literally either.
Looking at the intent, it's a sign of resistance. Looking at the reasons, it is either not enough attraction or not enough comfort which results in "I don't know you, and as it stands right now that is how I want it to stay".
Basically you've gone too fast..... eg asking her out without establishing enough attraction (usually) or comfort (sometimes).