I'm a teenage guy. I can drive and I am fairly decent looking. (Nice body, amazing eyes, okay face, long hair, little bit of acne) I am having trouble finding women. I can always attract in person but now I transferred and all the girls are ugly. I have been trying to use snap and I've only lined up two dates that have had excellent build up but both ended in a flake by blocking me on snap, insta, imessage. I am not an adult yet so I can't use dating apps and idk wtf to do.
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BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Delete all of your social media. You said you can attract girls in person, yet you are chasing girls on Snap, insta, imessage, ... Do you have many friends? Do you have a big social circle? Do you have hobbies? Are you popular in school?
I find most of my plates through my social circle. I know a lot of people, and often they introduce me to female friends, and one thing leads to another. I also cold approach girls who give me iOi's. I don't have social media, and get laid with much better looking girls than my friends who get ghosted on Tinder.
johnjim424 4y ago
I start on the football team but no I don't have any friends. All my old teammates stabbed me in the back. I don't have hobbies either I just train all day. I find it hard to delete social media if girls my age can't get off their fucking phones lmao
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
I know where you're coming from. I'm fairly young too, and girls are on their phones 24/7 nowadays. That's exactly why you need to approach them in real life, so you can stand out from all the guys who chase them on social media.
It's a good thing you start on the football team, how come ALL of your teammates stabbed you in the back though? Did you do something? I'm assuming you're in good shape, since you play football. It sounds like you have no social life. It's hard to meet new people this way. Focus on building a social circle, invite people out to do cool stuff with you, ... Once you have a big social circle, it's easy to meet new girls. You can even meet girls right now, by cold approaching.
johnjim424 4y ago
I don't have a social life. My day consists of sleeping, training, eating, practice, dinner with family, then repeating. Also, I wouldn't say all but the ones i talked to did. Lied to the coach about me not showing up, created tension, hung out without me, didn't help me out. Only reason would be jealousy because I've never done anything to hurt them.
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BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Good question, I'd say both. I take better care of myself, so that could be it. Nonetheless, it's because of Tinder's dynamic, too. Imagine if you match with a cute girl, she probably has 50 other dudes messaging her. Now, let's say you happen to run into a cute girl irl. She's giving iOi's, and you approach her. How many guys do that? Probably not many. It's easier to stand out from the crowd. That's why I only approach girls irl, I'm done with dating apps.
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Guyandtheroadtovictory 4y ago
When you are on your warriors path, girls can be met everywhere, even more interesting - when you play, for example, chess, you meet a girl who plays chess as well.
And after that, ask her - maybe we can play some chess at my place? ;)
johnjim424 4y ago
I kinda get your point but girls my age really don't have hobbies. It's just mostly cheer, go on their phones, and go to the big mall that's near us
Guyandtheroadtovictory 4y ago
If in your social circle girls do not have hobbies in early age, that already is bad sign - but - as well as, if you get in to shared interest communities where girls will be, already common interests can be found. Fighting sports, basketball, football etc. - there always are girls. If you will spend time with girls with interests in big mall, phones etc - you will affect your valuable time.
Dont chase girls - chase excellence!
whytehorse2021 4y ago
All the girls are ugly? That's a thinking error. All-or-nothing cognitive distortion. When I was a teen and could drive I could walk up to any freshman and take her home and have sex. If you have long hair, do it like Jason Momoa. My son's therapist did this and it upped his SMV significantly. He said it's really easy, he just puts some gel or something right after showering. No brushing, no blow drying.
johnjim424 4y ago
Yeah. All my teammates 100% of them said the girls are ugly. I guess there could be one or 2 but I kinda wanna just spread my wings outside of the school. Also, i'm not a senior so i can't really just fuck from the get go. i'm only the same age or a year older than the girls i'm talking to
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Weird. Is it just that they're fat? You don't have to be a senior to get freshmen. Just be a year ahead of them.
johnjim424 4y ago
Yeah just probably fat. That makes sense. I mean I don't get it my sort of friend who i used to train with a lot could pull on insta (he went to an all boys school) like crazy and got some really hot chicks and even double dates with me and a girls friend. I know he's better looking than me and he's older but still I don't get it.
Mumisnotokay 4y ago
Does your school have a track team? Track runners are not fat. Also, track meets are great places to meet girls from other schools.
orbilius 4y ago
My concept of a plate is a girl that is available to me for sex, but otherwise kept at some distance - no commitment from me, for example.
An ideal plate is a girl who is wasting her life on some stupid career, and is usually busy, but occasionally wants good dick without even the tiny amount of work she'd have to put in to get a new guy. So the way I would get these (and I have none right now) would be to pick them up, then fuck them really well, then just be cool about it and let them know we can keep doing that.
It's been a while since I was in high school, but that doesn't really seem like a game plan that is compatible with a high school girl who has lots of free time. Seems like if she likes you enough to fuck, she's going to be up your ass too frequently to be considered a "plate"
So, here's an out of the box idea: have you considered trying to land a cougar? They hang out in wine bars. They are always in groups of two or three. If you're under 21, you can still go into the bar and order some food. If you're 18 or 19 and good looking, it should be easy to pull one.
johnjim424 4y ago
Even then i still have girls up my ass to hang but then blow me off just so they can get attention. Also, I would love to pull a cougar. No bullshit and where i live it's a hotbed of them. But i'm still a minor which i don't care but they would
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
walk out your door, go find women..... is there a city near you? go there.
johnjim424 4y ago
Yeah I have cities all around me. Girls my age can't understand a cold approach though.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
then teach them.
You're making avoidance excuses
jeepwrangler 4y ago
That's not a reason to stop approaching them. If she acts weird it's because she doesn't get hit on very often, especially younger women with self-esteem issues.