Dating this girl for a month now - she is in my social circle. I really enjoy the time with her, she might be LTR potential. We spent the whole last weekends together. Texting so far is only for logistics - from both sides which i kinda enjoy. Now she went on vacation with her family, i brought her to the airport. I told her give me a call some day (was this a fuck up? i think she knows i like her, and so do i the other way, so i am fine with showing affection and interest here and there). It is like 3 days no contact, but we set a date up for the day when she comes back - would you text her something like how the tanning is going just to keep her engaged or just wait until she reaches out? I see she is on vacation and we won't see us in that week so i am not sure why i should text her. It seems like i ask myself if she still likes me which is a insecurity i carry around for years now. She liked my recent insta posts so it seems she does.
I know this post comes most likely as overthinking, but while i am really good with charisma in person, texting is a strong weakness because i came out of a long relationship with a girl, where we texted like the whole day - so i don't know what is the state of art with girls. I am in my mid-twenties.
While writing this i realized i might sound ridiculous for asking myself this after 3 days lmao. I need some AMS binge watch.

sonice 4y ago
You don't trust her.
amenskoi 4y ago
I don't understand this statement. How do you mean? Of course the only person i trust is my mother.
sonice 4y ago
You are afraid to even text this girl. Don't trust her liking the true you. That's not an LTR material.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
In time you will learn not to trust your mother.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
this is fine.
I'd wait.
Clicking "like" isn't the same as "want your dick". Learn this.
Don't know what AMS is, but yeah it'll be fine. If you're feeling insecure then put your energies into finding alternatives as good as this girl.
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