18 years old, found TRP a couple years ago at 16, at the time I had found it, I was 130lbs. After putting in work at the gym I now sit at 200lbs benching 265, DL 410 and Squatting 385 for 1 rep. After graduating high school I am also studying a finance degree and working 30 hours a week, saving every penny I have made. I've changed up my wardrobe, don't smoke weed anymore or drink alcohol much for that matter either. Completely transformed my life.
Despite this, I still am sexually frustrated, haven't had sex in years and see no difference in the amount of girls I've been getting. Mentally, although I have partaken in self improvement, my confidence and self esteem are inadequate.
My question is what else should I be doing at 18 to continue improving and to eventually start succeeding with girls?
Anonytrp 4y ago
Get on tinder and and hinge. Aproact girls in public. Ask number.
Don't rely on your social circle. Also post a headless topless picture so we can all wank off, but also critique whether you are ripped or not. No homo
sonice 4y ago
You are making yourself into a marriage material for a nun.
Girls just wanna have some fun. You can fuck some, without drinking, but don't expect much. If anything.
Things will change a bit many years later, if you'd be willing to fuck MILFs.
Is your self-esteem really bad? Girls sniff it instantly, and turn Sahara dry.
Yuitelein 4y ago
My self esteem is quite low mostly because I've had no success despite how much effort I've put in and thus feel like there is no hope for me.
I stopped drinking and the night life because I got so attached to the gym and gains. It's at a point where if I see a drop in my numbers it drives me crazy.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
do the night life, drink club soda or a coke. Dance, have fun. learn to DNGAF. The more you don't care, the more girls will be interested in you. Just talk with them, be fun, chill, tease them and don't care if it happens.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
You are doing fantastic, But, You don't sound fun, interesting,etc.
You are 18 and your maturity level I like a 25 yo. I'm guessing girls your age have 0 interest in you. Why? because you are not FUN or Exciting.
Hell, I'm not sure how many 30 yo girls would be interested , unless trying to mount you as a provider.
Take a speaking course. Practice your relationship/game. Learn to have some fun with girls, be amusing, interesting = fun
Then, make sure you aren't captured as a provider.
Yuitelein 4y ago
Completely right about girls my age having 0 interest in me. I see a lot of girls my age going for guys that look like shit and have 0 goals but party like they won't live to see tomorrow.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Muscles sound awesome, so long as you have low bodfat so you have good definition. Girls don't care how much you can bench, they care about seeing those rippling guns. And they can't see them under a layer of fat.
Are you talking to girls? What happens when you do?
Yuitelein 4y ago
I find that girls find me physically attractive and then I open my mouth and it just completely turns them off. A girl from my high school said I would be a good fuck behind my back.I pursued her and she hasn't talked to me since.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
What do you talk about? How do you talk? Do you lead? Do you listen? Is it fun?
BusterVadge 4y ago
You haven't mentioned how many girls you are approaching on a daily basis. Or what your social circle looks like. Both are huge when it comes to the volume of women you're prospecting for.
Yuitelein 4y ago
I don't necessarily approach girls I usually rely on my social circle to bring new girls whenever we go out and pursue whichever gives me IOIs.
My social circle is a bunch of guys that don't look the best but have crazy status and popularity. Their body counts are all >20
carnold03 4y ago
Given your age, I'd suggest that you consider getting your hands on either Aaron Clarey's "Worthless: The Indispensible Guide to Choosing the Right Major". or Aaron Clarey's other book The Black Man's Guide Out of Poverty: For Black Men Who Demand Better. The books are dirt cheap compared to any textbook you'll be getting and will provide you with more value in return. I would suggest you review his blog to get a feel for his views on money, dating, relationships, education, and work to see if they're aligned with what you aspire for yourself.
Additionally, I'd recommend that you consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read either author's books, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through free torrent and ebook sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.
Yuitelein 4y ago
Thank you for the sources, will definitely look into all of these!