[asktrp closed huh? Guess it was a long time coming]
This was a few weeks back. Ive seen her for a few weeks already. I visted her at her place for chill and fuck as usually. I wasnt in the door properly then she started like, get your shoes off outside, today Ill sleep on the left, I need lotion in my back.
I was like "chill I just arrived". On the couch again the I need lotion on my back thing. I again said that I just arrived. We talked, I put the lotion on, we ended up in her bed.
While fucking she said I should do something with her tits. But my hands were on her ass I wasn't in the mood. She said it again in a commanding tone and I said just dont annoy me slightly aggressive because she was indeed starting to annoy me.
We argued a little bit in a grown up manner, then I just left and no contact since. Which is fine, recently Im really just annoyed by women's bullshit and dont dread a hard next.
To be fair I basically ignored all her requests for foreplay and stuff in the past and in general was dominant and me-first. I feel like I should have continued being dominant but I was off my game when the door openend and the changed attitude suprised me. Maybe amused mastery would have been the way to go. Writting that - beside the stronger DGAF attitude, its actually a disadvantage that Im annoyed by women recently, its still an emotion and she is in my head.

[deleted] 4y ago
[--removed--]
noidea 4y ago
I think it was just "okay" I guess...but amused mastery would have been better. making a fool of her a little bit like "are you cosplaying a drill seagant today" or "what is wrong with you all of the sudden, are you shizophrenic" or even "whats is going on...were has my submissive little slut gone"...but I was just annoyed, and Iegit did want to leave. should have said something like that all while being not annoyed but completely unphazed by her bullshit and then leave in a good mood...that would have been the correct response.
[deleted] 4y ago
[--removed--]
noidea 4y ago
just came to me while answering
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Damn, she gets demanding fast.
Two takeaways from this, both apply:
You should move on - she is not going to change character. But if you want to make it work, you need to reduce your commitment to her, not promise to stay the night, be evasive about the next date for a while, be mysteriously busy a few times, etc.
She won't change though, this is just masking the problem.
noidea 4y ago
Nice to see you here, where is the endorsed flair?
She actually revealed to me that she is feminist and had all the internet arguments and shit. Natrually its a no-no for her to be with a dominant man, so she had to fight back as she did that day. I dont dread it.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
feminist, run forest run
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Thanks....... no idea on flair..... maybe I got here before they did the flairs. I should think of something appropriate, any ideas?
Bullet dodged.
noidea 4y ago
you had a flair on reddit redpill?
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Still do! :)
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Should've left sooner. She'd have blown up your phone, don't take that shit.