So a girl I met on bumle shows some interesting behavior. First date was great, we didn't fuck because of poorly planned logistics, but she came back for more a couple days later. We fucked, it was great. Couple days later I chatted her up, asking when she's free. She told me that she liked it but she just started a new job and has too much to do and doesn't want to see me again.
I told her no worries, good luck. The next day, she texted me, she came over and we fucked. She told me how much she liked it and so on.
A week later I asked her again if she wanted to meet me. She said no, she simply has not time at the moment and doesn't want to meet me anymore. She's so stressed and so sorry and blablabla. I said: Fine, let me know when you are free.
You know what comes next.. what is wrong with this girl? The pattern is always the same. We meet. We have a great time. She tells me we can't meet no more. We meet again.
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Judge a girl by her actions, not her words. You should give zero fucks about her or what she says. She's playing games for whatever reason, don't be too available. Don't reward bad behavior, either. If, for whatever reason, she starts playing games, start pulling back, focus on your purpose and other girls. Life's too short for girls who play games. She'll think you have no other options or are too available when she keeps pulling this shit on you.
eggplants 4y ago
100% this. So glad that I did not enter simp mode after getting a taste of her pussy. I truly don't care if she will come back. Do you think it would be beneficial if I upfront told her that I'm meeting other girls? She made it clear once that all she wants from me is sex.
BabyUareSoSexy 4y ago
Nope, don't upfront tell her that you're seeing other girls. It will look like you're trying to make her jealous. She has to do it herself. Women crave attention. If she's not getting it from you, she'll start wondering what you're up to and make up stupid scenario's in her head. Stay busy, don't be too available.
anon55 4y ago
Probably has another chad or boyfriend on the back burner. She cant get enough of the sex you are giving her though. Always act aloof..
Intrepid_Place53900 1 4y ago
exactly, she's got other plates, you are one of her plates.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
Girl is fucked in the head.
WahmenLover 4y ago
She sounds like a dumb bitch not good for more than a fuck sleeve. But if you would have fucked her on the first date if not for "poorly planned logistics" then you never wanted her to be anything more than that
carnold03 4y ago
You call/text her, she's not interested in the boyfriend/girlfriend experience. She calls/texts you, you give her the discount gigolo experience. As far as I understand, for most guys that's the chief goal and purpose of engaging with females through hookup apps. To increase your volume of booty call success. This gals clearly not interested in you as a potential relationship. You're just a walking dildo she can fornicate with when she's feeling pent up and the other walking dildos are unavailable. If that's something you're ok with, run with it, otherwise next her.
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