hello everyone, so my first introduction to the red pill was through ams (youtube channel, check him out, goldmine of content). basically he has many videos regarding how after a girl (whether an ex or a girl u used to date) comesback, you need to make her make it up to you, basically he says to tell her along the lines of "i didn't like how things ended and u were disrespectful, how are you willing to make it up to me?" basically do them do things and favors for you, and basically be willing to walk away if they refuse. so i wanted to see what are your guys thoughts concerning this, i myself tried it with a girl once, she first refused but a few days later she came back and did what i asked her for
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YourOwnDisaster 2y ago
Sounds like you're talking about an ex, because if you were spinning plates, you'd know how to deal with this. That being said:
If you let her back into your life, don't be a dick about it, but definitely let her work for it. Like others said, you're not taking her out. You're not picking her up. You're not spending money on her and you're not bending over backwards for her, no matter how much you want her back. She brings a bottle of wine over and she cooks for you. Let her work to keep you around.
Every new boundary you set from here on out will be tested. She's not used to them. Enforce them nonetheless. Don't ever fall back into whatever bullshit you had before.
Doubleaxe90 2y ago
I agree with ams, you have all the power in the dynamic when she comes crawling back, tell her to come over the next few dates, don't pick her up, tell her to bring a bottle of wine etc. You don't want to be the looser she comes back to every time Chad gets bored of her.
carnold03 2y ago
Making an ex make it up to you a price of re-entry into your life reads as an alright idea. It allows you to determine if she's serious or not, but I don't see what most guys gain in the long term being available to women they eject from their lives. If a gal wants you, she doesn't screw things up with you and does what she can to keep you. Whatever the conflict which prompted the break isn't going to likely be something a guy will forget and people aren't like transformers, they change gradually, not rapidly. Better to cut an ex cold from your life and move on to fresh game.
holeephuc 2y ago
i agree with what you're saying, i'd mostly use this when idgaf about the girl anymore and basically would just use them to fulfill whatever i need then throw them to the side
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Right, but most women can't be bothered doing anything much, even if they fucked up, so expect to move on.
Right, she bluffed, fair enough.