Sleep 7-8 hours Work 9 hours Commute 35m walking two times a day Exercise 90 minutes Those are my bare essentials. On top of that I'll sometimes need to do chores like laundry, cleaning my apartment, banking, shopping, whatever comes up. I try to combine tasks so I'll do my laundry and cooking in between sets while I'm working out. And yet still I'm only left with 2-3 hours a day at best.
How do you fellas fit dating and spinning plates into your life? If a plate comes to see me on a work day I'm cutting into valuable sleep time. I get 2 days off a week, I'll use one of those for dating and my Sundays I am 50/50, sometimes I'll see a plate but sometimes I just want to be alone and read a book or waste time on the Internet.
Bullish_Business 2y ago
Maybe look into self employment. It takes a long time to learn, took me 7 years of failing in order to eventually be successful, but now I am 27 and make more money than anybody I have personally met and don't really "work" anymore. Or you could say I work constantly since my business is just part of my life now.
None the less, spinning plates shouldn't take much time. Meet women on dating apps and use the voice chat feature to save time, call them to set up a date, go to the date for an hour or so and get that physical connection, call them a week or so later and repeat. Don't text them conversationally, just use the phone for setting dates. I call a girl and talk for maybe 5 minutes and then set up a date to meet in person.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
Yup, the plate spinning thing is mostly for the young guys. I'm older, my schedule sounds like yours, I have a kid, even more stuff.
I'm in a LTR, but when dating I was only do 1-2 girls at once and tried to vet them, rule them out quickly and move on to another.
my goal was to find one worth a LTR.
When Young, it was pretty similar to you, I had more energy and less responsibility though. No kid, no house, wasn't managing people,etc.
But still, with a serious job that takes 40-60 hours a week, not sure how guys are really managing more than 2 plates at a time. Hats off to you guys.
CAPTAINSKINNYPENIS 2y ago
Looking back don't know how I did it in my 20s lad!