So I have started to date more and more and really given up on the nice guy act after being a mega beta male for a long time. I am currently dating 4-5 different women and having trouble keeping track of personal information about them. I have started a CRM, basically a mirror of a sales funnel I use, to track how many dates I have been on with each woman, which woman have gone cold, women I have cut off and all the information about them.
Is there a less business like approach to this that you take? It got so bad I didn't even know a chicks name at one point haha.
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Bullish_Business 2y ago
I need a wall like this in my life haha
splifferoo 2y ago
LMAO nigga got to the point where he need a business solution to manage his hoes. Can’t ever say TRP doesn’t work
Bullish_Business 2y ago
Hahaha It was mostly the change from chasing women to vetting women. When women know they are being vetted through your actions, they go crazy about it.
Ditario 2y ago
Use Todoist. Make each plate a project and keep track of things for all of them. Your welcome.
CAPTAINSKINNYPENIS 2y ago
I noticed that my memory improved a lot when I started taking fish oil supplements. Apparently that shit is good for your brain.
redpillmania 2y ago
i would use selective accuracy with the girl's loyalty being the variable.
it honestly depends on the girl. one of my plates knows im fucking other women and has even said it verbally that i am. she doesnt want kids or marriage so she is the ultimate plate to me.
however one of my plates is the jealous type and is loyal to only me. and with her im a bit more careful about mixing up details with other women.
women who are extremely loyal expect loyalty in return. but of course that goes against our biological nature so we have to make them think we are loyal.
but in the end, focus less on the more accepting women and that may make your workload more manageable
orbilius 2y ago
I always used to jot down notes in a google doc. I'd just do a brain dump the next day of whatever random stuff I could remember. Then I'd read back over it if I saw her again.
My purpose was a little different from yours. I wasn't trying to keep a record of lays (nothing wrong with doing that, btw). No, what I used it for was to avoid accidentally mentioning things other girls had told me about.
I had one doc total, not a separate one for each girl, because there isn't a whole lot I needed to write down.
JamesSkepp Moderator 2y ago
Take a sheet of paper. Write down all the personal details about yourself. Name, address, job, car family, friends, hobbies, interests, house, car, social media, phone, education etc. Anything and anyone you "use" on regular basis, especially if it identifies you as a non PC person.
Once you've done this, select the elements (the less the better) you're willing to share with a total stranger (you can slowly relax this with a plate after few months - slowly! and only! if she has no major red flags and only! if you plan to make her your primary, all 3 must be true).
Write down canned responses to the possible questions about your narrowed down list. Canned b/c you need to have a natural reflexive response explained in the next part.
Anything thats not on the list is off limits to anyone. If you get asked about that, you deflect, A&A, lie or ignore. It's a shit test to be passed.
The goal of this entire sperg-paranoia-routine is to develop instinctual reflex in your mind - "that qestion is not on the list, that information is off limits" - and that thought has to be automatic and instantly recognizable by you, so your conscious mind can focus on the shit test itself, not on evaluating if you should tell her and how much or how to make it look good. That's b/c if she sees you're evaluating the answer, she'll know there's something worth pursuing there (and I don't mean you in positive, atttraction sense). This also decreases your chance of fumbling or inadvertly blurting out something you didn't wanted to.
This way you have the most possible situations handled by least possible effort - "question not on the list" - that's all you need to pay attention to, remember and understand.
Welcome to the PUA club, here's short breakdown of our entire methodology:
https://web.archive.org/web/20120619041714/http://puacomic.com/comic/who-lies-more-men-or-women/