I’ve noticed through conversation with many types of women, especially the healed and mentally higher value women, the biggest shit test they throw your way is that question. Less healed women throw ridiculous shit tests that just get annoying and old, as they have yet to heal their trauma and are projecting it onto you.
What is a great response to this test though? I usually go cocky funny but that doesn’t vibe with the kind of woman that won’t shit test just to shit test.
I struggle with knowing exactly how serious to take that question, not that I would just ramble on about what I’m doing later anyway.
Sometimes this one woman asks me REPEATEDLY in a matter of a few minutes, like right after I’ve blatantly answered it. I’ll just repeat myself and stay general, but sometimes it seems she wants me to invite her to something or lead in a specific direction.
Ive been on a healing path, and to this day see trp principles stay true of course, however ive become DRASTICALLY more aware of and more picky of what women I talk to and bring into my life.
This has lead me to a place where I don’t get the same basic stupid shit tests I used to get, as I don’t even bother with most women like that. Now they’re harder to detect of course and really just about “How much information will you tell me about your day/plans or how serious are you taking me?” Kind of stuff.
Anyone have similar experiences or get that question A LOT?
Musicgoon425 2y ago
Wow, bro..... That isn't even close to a shit test. It wasn't anything negative about you.
Bro she was literally asking you our for fucks sake....
Read about shit tests again. You might check your ass. If everything is dark you might have you head up there.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
ya, not a shit test. Maybe fishing for, what are you doing? invite me to go to something with you please.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
No shit. This is her covertly asking you out. It's that simple, you just need to get it. It's the way women communicate. Take the lead.
'Come over and find out'.
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Hanscheezburger 2y ago
This is the 5th time I've read you shilling for this book. And it's the exact reason why I would never buy it
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
It's a bot. Searches for specific keywords, then spams the reply.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
It's tricky. You want to appear busy, but equally you probably want to leave space to see her if that's what she's angling for. It's a bit of a no-win situation because "I'm doing nothing" is unappealing.
Probably best is something fun she could potentially join in with.
"I told you this already".