matched with girl on tinder, talked a bit, gave her my number, she asked for my socials, I gave her snap, she hit me up and long story short the bitch is crazy. she told me her life story, that she's on tinder looking for a relationship, sent me some poems she wrote and some nudes. entertained her for a bit and then ended the convo. Bottom line, classic attwhore. She's outta town atm but she'll come back in some weeks. Should I feed her need for attention and sell her a dream over text while she's away or do I just text a bit once in a blue moon until she comes here? Normally I wouldn't do this but that ass is crazy and she seems entertaining, shares some niche interests with me and shit.
READ THE SIDEBAR BEFORE POSTING!
Created by bambinosupremo
Ask questions related to TRP, dating, life advice.
Original Reddit Red Pill sub (quarantine bypass) that contains the full original sidebar
CAPTAINSKINNYPENIS 4y ago
Oh nooo this crazy girl who is hungry for me and is probably great in bed is sending me nudes oh nooooo
Haha but seriously, just play it casual. She sounds thirsty for you and like she'll pursue you regardless, so you've already won. Tell her to hit you up when she's in town and do your own thing until then. If she wants to talk on the phone a lot you can feed some line about how you'd prefer to get to know her in person.
Portobello3610 4y ago
I din't see it a her being hungry for me lol. She hasn't seen me in person and no bitch falls in love with pics and text, so right now I'm just an attention supply.
Doubleaxe90 4y ago
"and some nudes"
You probably are one out of ten men she send those nudes too, classic beta bait, don't validate.
"Should I feed her need for attention and sell her a dream over text while she's away or do I just text a bit once in a blue moon until she comes here?"
Make it clear with your actions that she needs to fuck for your attention. Let her initiate, be busy and set the date.
Portobello3610 4y ago
The thing is in order for that to work she has to see my attention as better than any other tinder guy's attention. If I'm just generic attention, she won't give a fuck if I withdraw it bc she can find it elsewhere. That's why I talked about selling her a dream a lil bit and all that. Gotta give her some bait.
Doubleaxe90 4y ago
"Scarcity, in the area of social psychology, works much like scarcity in the area of economics. Simply put, humans place a higher value on an object that is scarce, and a lower value on those that are in abundance."
Let the hamster create the dream. The one with the abundance mentality wins. Guess what the other nine are doing.
Portobello3610 4y ago
If I make 20 white t shirts with a picture of my dick on em, they're still worth shit, and their value doesn't go up or down if I make 100 more or 10 less. If Vetements makes 20 shits with a picture of my dick, they're worth thousands. First I'd have to put in work to convince the buyers that my shit is as cool as Vetements and spam IG with it, make people see celebrities wearing my brand and all that. Convince the public that my shit can fulfil the same needs as Vetements. Not talking about texting her good morning everyday, but things ain't that simple.
Doubleaxe90 4y ago
Look, you have two options here:
Display high value with your tinder profile and initial report, initiate text and try to negotiate attraction, engage emotions by phone and basically chase.