Long story short, we have been together about a year. When we moved in together 4 month ago I was new to the red pill. I had scarcity mentality and thought it was a good idea to save money and see more of each other.
Wish I had discovered this site earlier. There are now far too many arguments, every other day, she will completely lose it over something trivial and get loud and violent, starts breaking stuff, standing in my way, the other day she took it out on my pet (last straw btw) Threats too like ' ill call my gang brothers to beat you up. '
Basically cant take no for an answer or not be in control without having a full tantrum. Not much sex now, if I try to initiate its pretty much either too tired or what r u gonna do for me tomorrow, then change subject. If I use my phone and she cant see the screen, im on tinder apparently
I'm very unhappy, Ive fucked up
I dont know the best way to get out of this situation, I want to move far away. It feels like the best way to do it is just disappear,
TL Dr how to leave crazy girl u shouldnt be living with ?
Intrepid_Place53900 1 5y ago
Who's place is it? You have a lease, who's name is it in, when does it end,etc.
If you can move out (things are not in your name), start planning now and do it.
If things are in your name, this is gonna be rough. Look up the local laws on cohabitation,etc. If she's throwing stuff around and getting physical, try to record some of it (on the sly) for possible future use. Although this may be illegal in your location, it's better than being accused of violence without any evidence of her issues , they will believe her 100%.
Go visit, alone, your family or something on the weekend, spend less time together ,etc.
sadboy 5y ago
Thanks
We currently share the place, we just have to give two weeks notice to move out. It might have my name written first?
Managed to get some recordings the other day when she was trying to release my pet rabbit (lots of dogs and cats around here) but I will be more onto it if anything else happens. some threats on the recording too but tbh i hope i never have to use these
Will start being out more, time to hit the bike and the gym again and make plans for where im going next. Also family
SavingsParamedics 5y ago
step 1: literally take the shit and repercussions and break up with her. no matter what she says or do, you dont lose frame and break up with her. it is the only way you're going to be getting rid of this girl.
step 2: after you've sucessfully done that. look for other girls to hook up with. you should alrdy be working out and be having a decent looking body.
step 3: enjoy your RP life
BusterVadge 5y ago
She took it out on your pet? For me, that would be an instant throwing her out on her ass, changing the locks, putting her shit outside to get rained on.
Fuck animal abusers, and fuck this dumb bitch.