Hi All,

I've been following Red pill beliefs for some time now .. I believe going on 3 years. Since I've made that change I definitely can see the difference in my approach to women as a whole. Although I have been following for that amount of time I have only been implementing the rules etc. for the last 2 years. I still feel I have soo much more to Learn. With that being said I'm a 25 year old male 6'2 180lbs in good shape, been told I dressed well/smell good.. Im fairly decent looking, I compete in Muay thai etc.. working towards career goals ( Going to trade school). Since swallowing the Red pill I went from sleeping with 5 girls total to sleeping with 9.. 4 of which have been in the last year and a half. I apologize for the long intro this is my first post since ive started following and want to be truthful as possible.

let me begin by saying before this experience (which I need advice on how I fucked up and how I can better correct and prevent this in the future) I wasn't actively dating or even thinking about girls due to covid/school. I havent had sex for about 9 months and this was my first date back. I matched with this girl who I perceive as 7-7.5 on hinge and most of the people ive shown agreed she was in that range. I exchange 5-8 messages back on hinge and get her number. I went for a camping trip that was supposed to last 2 weeks in the Pacific Northwest.. However it was cut short by a week.. On my return I decide to message the girl and she replies instantly ( within a minute of texting her). I get straight to the point and tell her to meet me at a bar on Friday at 9pm she accepts the offer immediately saying she only has plans for Saturday and Friday works ( i send that on monday). I dont message her all week and the day of the date she hits me up 2 hours prior asking if we can make the location near her place due to her not having to drive and being able to enjoy drinks.. I gladly accept as i know this can lead to sex.

I show up for the date 20 mins late due to the uber driver and shes sitting in the back of this bar waiting.. I go up to her and give her a really intimate hug. We start talking drink etc.. times flying and we head off to another bar because the bar we are at closes ( its about 11pm at this point) we get to the other bar which is within walking distance and after entering there is one stool , I let her sit down and i have to reach over to talk to the bartender so I put my arm around her waist and she starts kissing my neck ( prior to this at the previous bar I would playful touch her hands and leg to the point she wanted me to sit right next to her) We make out grab 2-3 drinks and I suggest we go to her place.

We get to her place with a six pack of beer and start drinking just a tiny bit.. and she goes I know literally nothing about you ive been talking and sharing things about myself for the last 3-4 hours. I just respond " well lets keep it that way" we start making out i pick her up take her to her room and we start fucking. It last about 15 mins I cant bust and she's drying out. we take a 10 min intermission talking listening to music etc.. we start fucking again this last for another 10 same outcome.. she apologize and says I hate condoms. I lay back down for another 40 mins with her and tell her I have to go because I have things to do in the morning .. she ask me to stay a while longer .. i stayed 5 extra mins and said the same shit. I got up to put on my clothes, kiss her and im putting on my shoes and she starts saying " get the fuck out of my apartment" I laugh to myself finish putting on my shoes and leave.

after 6 days of not hearing from her I said fuck it shot her a text and no response. Where did I go wrong with this? Im assuming the sex? Ive never had an experience like that and previous women have reached out to me after a one night stand.. . I also only reached out because ive never had a starting 2 or 3.. for pussy.. I want all that in my life and some point and want to improve with all this. I appreciate all the replies in advance