Im legit tired of dating. In the span of a 1.5 years, I have met 80+ women, mainly from tinder. i have slept with roughly half, and it just doenst entertain me anymore. I feel like i have tried almost everything.
Currently i have 2 women in my rotation (both HB7), and as my previous post mentioned i care about one of them more than the other.
As i met the plate i care about on tinder, i of course want to vet the fuck out of her before potentially promoting her. How would i go about this? I have noticed that she isnt on tinder anymore (Or atleast not using it) which is a green flag for me.
But as this area of TRP is quite new to me, i dont know how to proceed. Is there any relevant reading materials you guys can link me? Guiding me in the correct area to vetting properly?
Cheers!
BigTwoOne1 5y ago
Forget the "+ Days 5 days in the future" in the title lmao
LaskerV 5y ago
Then stop dating, at least as much. You have other shit to do with your time I assume.
Neither of them are special.
You plate her for a prolonged period of time and see if there are any red flags.
You can't vet properly. It's not a thing. All women are like that.
I'm wondering why you think that you have to promote a girl in the first place.
Musicgoon425 5y ago
Bro if you're asking us what to vet for with an LTR, you aren't ready for an LTR. Your ideas, boundaries, expectations, deal breakers and makers are all subjective. This has to be your project for your happiness.
You should go out by yourself and have fun solo. Treat it like a date with yourself. Go have a killer time and learn that you don't need a woman to have fun. Women are just joining in on your fun.
Work on getting to understand yourself better. Part of that is getting a mission.
mattyanon Admin 5y ago
You are happy that she's a reformed whore?
Come on man, you know better. "I no longer stab people on the street" doesn't make someone an angel..... "No longer have the same Tinder profile but might have another" is hardly virginity reclaimed.
re vetting for exclusivity: meh. It's a massive risk. You'll be less attractive in her eyes. She will keep overflowing with options, and you won't. She knows this. You know this. Your position weakens with every passing day.
BigTwoOne1 5y ago
Okay i see. Your comment has definitely shifted my perspective on this plate.
And now that you say it, i probably have mistakenly vetted for exclusivity, as i can sense her energy is not the same as it was some weeks ago, eg. im probably less attractive in her eyes now.
Only time will tell if the plate is salvageable, im going to pull back for a few days