Mid 30s man. Had a wild ride in my earlier years, ticked alot of boxes but that was then. 60+ count (like that matters, just tryna set my mental state).
My problem is this. I used to have status as a degenerate from 17, known for good sex, access to drug fuelled sessions, sharing, but it was all in person but it was before the online branding today. i knew plausible deniability naturally and it was just partying.
Ive never really liked the online space and havent invested even as they grew. I joined Facebook when it looked like myspace. I value my privacy above anything and wont concede.
However, this limits status today in this wierd marketplace. I can do cold approach without fear but dont live in a big city.
My question is, and i already think i know the answer, am i left behind my prioritising privacy over status as a man in 2021? Has anyone has the same conflict of not sharing anything, acting naturally incase its shared?
mattyanon Admin 5y ago
Not really: facebook, insta and all the rest of it is more of a trap than a benefit. It's there to give women attention much more than it is to get a man results.
I have some social media, not all. It's almost completely useless. You're not missing out on much.
LaskerV 5y ago
If this is really the case, then there's nothing to do differently.
No. Girls won't give a shit if you're attractive. Honestly, this whole thing is just in your head.