Hello RP Bros,
Some background to my story: I've (24M) been in a exclusive relationship with this girl (23M) for 6 months, been dating for 10. She's sweet, submissive, and is always looking to please me. We have sex of epic proportions and it happens every single time we meet up.
But recently (last last night) she caught me cheating. She is absolutely devastated. We do not live together as she lives with her mom. Moment she found out, she called me nonstop and wanted answers from me. I obliged a little and answered some of her questions. I had a rock solid frame the entire time. I didn't give into her emotions and was stoic all throughout the conversation. My frame was basically, she could forgive me and we could get back together or we just end it now. I care for neither outcome. She's great, I could still be together with But I also don't care if we end things for good. I already have several of my old plates lined up and ready to go.
She knows the logical thing to do is break up with me but she obviously do not want to. At this point she is basically hamstering out of control, begging for me to fight for her and to get her back.
I escalated and told her if she wanted to talk more, she should come over tomorrow and we could figure things out. She agreed and we're meeting at my place in the evening.
My question is bros, how do I get the break-up lay? How do I initiate it and what sort of frame do I need to have in order for it to happen?

lancer000 5y ago
Break-up sex is the best. Also, if you break up while having sex, that's on another level as per my personal experience. You also get to do a load of nasty stuff that you want to try and your partner would be more willing to do so.
jeepwrangler 5y ago
Fuck her immediately and then talk. Otherwise what's going to happen is you'll start getting in your own head or she'll waste your time being passive-aggressive and blaming you.
And in terms of what "frame" you need to have -- that's irrelevant. She already knows you have options and are more valuable. She is at a disadvantage here.
SavingsParamedics 5y ago
gotchu. how do you think i should go about initiating it. she's furious as fuck
jeepwrangler 5y ago
By not reacting to her state. Women feel the energy of the people she's with. If she's 'furious' and you don't respond or react, she's going to feel awkward.
Simple kino. Shrug off accusations. Control the interaction and state.
You're also making a lot of assumptions. Maybe she'll feel sad and unwanted, which could be a plus depending on how long you want to keep this plate spinning.
mattyanon Admin 5y ago
Is the breakup lay what you really want here, or is it for her to come back and have lots of future sex with this girl?
Work out what YOU want, and try to think with future-dick instead of right-now dick.
But if you really want to get that lay: